Yeah, having lived here for a bit over a decade, people in Melbourne seem to think there is some sort of rivalry with NSW/Sydney. The thing is, people in Sydney couldn't give a toss about Melbourne. There's the NSW/Qld rivalry (at that is nicely backed up via Origin), but the Melbourne one is very much a one way street.
Having lived in both states for well over a decade as well - you're spot on.
Sydney couldn't give a rats about Melbourne.
I do like to ruffle feathers though - so even though I don't like the swans one little bit, I'd go for the Swans in the GF against any side other then my own - simply because it upsets so many from the state I was born in.
Back on topic... Queensland are whingers and their fans are morons for yelling out during the minutes silence. I mean dogsh*t dumb.