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- Mar 29, 2010
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Apologies for not being able to read sarcasm.Thanks for that
What about a bloody good belting followed by a talking to?As far as I'm concerned it's just as lazy to hit your kid as it is to do nothing. Hitting a kid is the easy way out, it takes very little thought or effort and it teaches them nothing. How about actually talking to your child or putting some effort in when disciplining them.
You post like you're a 14 year old with ADHD, not sure it worked that wellI used to get 'knocked around' a fair bit. None of this bloody mambi pambi pussyfooting around like we see today.
If I didn't have that kind of discipline, I probably would have grown up to be a loud mouthed, obnoxious Essendon supporter.You post like you're a 14 year old with ADHD, not sure it worked that well
If you want to teach kids that violence isn't the answer, I'm not sure giving them a whack when you get angry is the way to go. Seems a little self defeating to me.
I don't have kids so it's easy to be a backseat parent It's interesting that you mention the parent's anger though, a lot of times I've seen parents give their kids a smack, it's seemed to me that that's the reason they are doing it, which I is why I think it's a bit counter productive.If your going to to do it it has to be done clinically - often the smacking is a function of the parent's anger than the kids misdeeds. I don't have the self discipline to be cool so I don't do it
I don't have kids so it's easy to be a backseat parent It's interesting that you mention the parent's anger though, a lot of times I've seen parents give their kids a smack, it's seemed to me that that's the reason they are doing it, which I is why I think it's a bit counter productive.
The best way is to buy them an animal that they love and then hit the animal when the kid misbehaves. Make them watch every beating and keep screaming "YOU CAUSED THIS! YOU CAUSED THIS!" at them.
If you think that's bad, Waite until North play the Blues this year. Then you'll be depressed!IschenkoUBeauty your posts are making me depressed
When my brother shat on the carpet my dad got out two slices of bread and warned him of the implications of it happened again.When I pissed the bed when I was a kid, the old man rubbed me nose in it.
Smacking kids is fine. Always has been. The Helen Lovejoys can GTFO.
Hitting kids is not fine. Never has been. The 'I'm just toughening him up' types can also GTFO.
Kids are basically just pets that live longer, learn to talk and eventually put you in a home. If you smack a puppy on the nose lightly with a rolled up newspaper or spray it with a water bottle when it does something wrong, it will learn that whatever it was doing is not on. When it stops doing whatever it was that it was doing, you give it a pat and a biscuit and it thinks you are the best thing ever. You scream at a puppy and belt it over the ears it will become timid and nervous and will probably end up biting a stranger who laughs loudly or moves their hands too quickly.
Kids are no different. A smack on the bum and a 'You know why you got that?' 'Yeeesssss, Daaaadddd' 'OK, good lad now run along and don't do it again' is a perfectly acceptable behaviour modification tool. Just like removing XBOX360 or iPad privileges for not doing homework, not allowing sweets if vegetables aren't eaten at dinner, offering a trip to McDonald's or the zoo or wherever kids go for doing well at school etc.