I don't know if I'm depressed or what. Since school has finished it's been a wild ride with lots of fun times, and some lonely times when the social aspect of my life has died down (mainly due to footy ending and people being more busy with commitments). My twelve month old puppy always made me feel great whenever I got home, and even if there wasn't a lot going on he was always there to be around. I was on cloud nine two weeks back after finishing with uni for the year (mind you I didn't go a lot which has made me upset with myself) but it was over and I was ready to be more focused next year. A few days later my puppy died unexpectedly and we never found out why. It gutted me at the time, left me feeling completely empty and I didn't really want to do anything. In the past week or so I thought I was past it, and was only getting the odd flashback which made me sad.
However, back to back nights of torment like dreams where I see my puppy alive and well only for me to wake up and realise it was all fake have left me feeling like complete crap.
I've never felt this lonely before, and in my younger days I would always go to the video games when I felt lonely (I wasn't as social when I was younger) yet now I just keep being reminded of my dog.
I'm not exactly sure if my dog's death is the big reason behind this feeling, or if there's something deeper. I started to get similar feelings post school when all my mates were getting girlfriends and hanging out with them a lot of the time while I wasn't. However, the arrival of my puppy seemed to alleviate that and yet now I'm feeling really empty all again.
I'd love to get another dog because I honestly think they can be one of the best things you can ever come into contact with when it comes to making yourself feel good because they're such devoted animals, but we've lost two puppies at less than 15 months (both labs) in just about 3 years, so I think it will just be too hard to try again with a third family dog.
Another issue I find is that all my mates are great mates and love to hang around with me, yet I can't pinpoint someone who is mature enough or understanding enough to chat to me about my feelings.
I'm not going to say too much. When you say "since school has finished", is that a few weeks or a few years for you?
Uncertainty in a transition period is nothing unusual, or in itself to be too concerned about. Unless it is stopping you doing other things, or leading to consistent bad patterns of thought and behaviour (and you might not be able to spot these yourself).
I'm assuming you are still quite young, so it is quite possible your mates aren't able to deal with your feelings. Although, you might be surprised how many share at least some aspects. Its not easy to be the one to start that conversation, young guys are supposed to be invulnerable - its crap of course, everyone has vulnerabilities except the most narcissistic and arrogant, but it is the expectation and not living up to that image is tough to admit.
First point of call is your GP. Get an independent assessment of where you are at. It could just be the dog. It could be the timing of that with other stuff, and you'll get through it fine. It could be the thing that brings up that there is something else. If there is something, you seem to want to get on top of it early. That is good. Living in denial and letting it fester for 40 years eventually drives you to some very dark places, and you don't want to be where I am.