Snag Breac
Brownlow Medallist
She will seriously think I'm a headcase.
Tempest, don't let your imaginings about what the doctor may or may not think prevent you from seeking help. We're all vulnerable and fragile. If anyone could access my inner thoughts, they'd think I was a total nutter. Just because we mostly appear composed and in control on the outside doesn't mean we're not struggling internally. But that's the human condition.
A great deal of life is about overcoming difficulty and disappointment. It's easy to despair about the big picture, so it helps to focus on small things that give your comfort and pleasure. Talking to a friend, tinkering in the shed, listening to music, playing a game, reading, having a beverage of your choice, spending time with animals, even browsing BigFooty - all these small things can enhance a life. It doesn't seem like much, but happiness is about finding something worthwhile in the small things that happen every day.
Things are very hard now for young people, with social breakdown, the lack of community and the on-going transfer of riches and opportunity to the elite. I know many young people who view the future with fear and despair atm. Try taking it one day at a time. Find something to do that you'll enjoy - do it today, and do it again tomorrow. And what about following up on some of the other suggestions made in this thread? Action is an effective antidote to despair.
Live is hard, but it's worth fighting for. If you ever need to talk, I'm sure many on here would be happy to meet with you, me included. Good luck. Tempest. May your gods bless and keep you. May they hold you in the palms of their hands.