Interesting chat with mates yesterday about this.
Mate A (call him George) is married and expecting a child with his Jewish wife. He's not Jewish (agnostic) and she is a 'soft Jew' (can't think of a better term) i.e. she picks and chooses - e.g. she won't eat pig products but will eat prawns.
The question was asked as to whether the child would be raised Jewish or raised agnostic and then left to choose whether it would want to join either Judaism or another religion at an age when it could make an informed choice. George said that they would be raising the kid as a Jew and seemed happy with that decision.
The convo then led to jokes about depriving a child of bacon being borderline child abuse, but then circumcision. George is circumised and doesn't have a problem with it but times have changed since he was a kid so most people are now against it. That's a more serious question of child abuse.
Aside from the specifics of this situation it made me think what the 'right' thing to do would be in that situation, in any similar situation? To raise the child as a Jew or to let them decide at a suitable age? What about parents who are vegos/vegans and raise their children as vegans? (is breast milk considered vegan?)
Mate A (call him George) is married and expecting a child with his Jewish wife. He's not Jewish (agnostic) and she is a 'soft Jew' (can't think of a better term) i.e. she picks and chooses - e.g. she won't eat pig products but will eat prawns.
The question was asked as to whether the child would be raised Jewish or raised agnostic and then left to choose whether it would want to join either Judaism or another religion at an age when it could make an informed choice. George said that they would be raising the kid as a Jew and seemed happy with that decision.
The convo then led to jokes about depriving a child of bacon being borderline child abuse, but then circumcision. George is circumised and doesn't have a problem with it but times have changed since he was a kid so most people are now against it. That's a more serious question of child abuse.
Aside from the specifics of this situation it made me think what the 'right' thing to do would be in that situation, in any similar situation? To raise the child as a Jew or to let them decide at a suitable age? What about parents who are vegos/vegans and raise their children as vegans? (is breast milk considered vegan?)
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