Ok I understand what your are saying here.You have completely failed to understand my point.
This has zero to do with anyone playing the gender card.
If after the video cuts in the aboriginal person had called the white person "white trash" could we make the conclusion that they were out of line and made a very inappropriate comment? Regardless of what happened before... Of course we could.
Which is exactly what has happened here (at least in respect to my comment)
I still disagree with you because I don't think she made an offensive comment towards him. But this is subjective and just my opinion. You may think otherwise and your well within your rights to think that.