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Your own personal happiness.
If you only exist to have kids and your kids only exist to do the same and so do their kids etc then what is the point of any of this?
Some people just arent wired to want kids. Nothing wrong with that.
What about if you are unable to have kids. Either on the male or female side. Shouldnt they be able to have a point to the rest of their lives?
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No children. Not in a position to have them and don't want. Would have maybe considered it a few years a go after being no but the older I get the more it is a no for me and reverting back to my original position of hell noDo you have them, and if you do did you always want them or did something change your mind?
Do you want children one day?
or
Are you completely uninterested?
This. Yes nothing is off the table but it costs $$$.Well, biologically speaking, there is no other point. But really, I just feel that having a family is what it's all about, and dedicating yourself to selfish pursuits like self improvement or travel (things that aren't off the table if you have kids btw) then that's not really the key to a happy life.
Nothing wrong with it, of course, I just don't understand it.
This is something that has always interested me.
I'm 27 and not at all interested in having kids. I've never really thought much about having my own family but I actually don't mind kids. I just find it hard to relate to them now being away from them for so long. People say that I will change my mind but I've never really had any kind of drive to reproduce. I wonder if there have been people in my situation who where adamant they weren't going to have kids and then ended up with them.
So the point of this discussion is;
Do you have them, and if you do did you always want them or did something change your mind?
Do you want children one day?
or
Are you completely uninterested?
27 and single, but certainly want kids. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad, but if you don't want a family then what exactly is the point of your daily efforts?
Not while it's going to trap me into a career I don't enjoy.
I feel like half the people just have kids to be popular/keep someone else happy
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I dont mind them, but I couldnt eat a whole one.Don’t want them. This might sound bad, but I can’t stand little children. They annoy the s**t out of me.
My wife is 22 weeks pregnant with our first and although I have no idea what I'm in for I am bursting with excitement.
Got really lucky with us, her sister in law and one of her best friends all due within 8 weeks of each other. Going to be cool having them all grow up together