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Provoking someone to the point that they lose control of their emotions and resort to threats/fantasies of violence pleases me. I'm not sure if you'd call it masculinity, but it does give me a sense of emotional superiority.I think the question is silly because over history and through culture, it becomes utterly meaningless to depict manliness or masculinity with any real clarity.
If you're asking what makes a hypothetical person (or myself) feel like a man, then you're going to get thousands of completely different responses, most of which correspond with what makes said individual feel good. Yelling at the umpires while watching the footy on television makes me feel like a man, but also like a dickhead; making bets I'm going to regret while I'm drunk makes me feel like a man; the act of getting drunk, trying to write fiction, doing both simultaneously, having sex, hitting a 4, throwing a punch, getting kicked in the head, getting to the ball first, running someone out, kicking a goal; all of these make me feel like a man, yet none of them are uniquely male experiences. Moana Hope or Tayla Harris could make a case for most of them.
What they depict is more your cultural situation and context more than anything to do really with your gender.
The question is dumb, in the same way a finger painting is dumb.