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There will be a vegan salad bar. With salad and tofu (I hate that shit but each to their own).

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Visiting my Mum again in her Nursing Home tonight again, and it strikes me this may be the last time this may be able this last Christmas, she may actually remember who i am. Dementia rapildy sets in fast with female members of my family.

The worst thing me breaking down/crying in front of her, hurts/upsets her so much, so have to try remain stoic/bottle it in..

I wouldn't wish what i am going through my Mum on my worst enemy.
 
Visiting my Mum again in her Nursing Home tonight again, and it strikes me this may be the last time this may be able this last Christmas, she may actually remember who i am. Dementia rapildy sets in fast with female members of my family.

The worst thing me breaking down/crying in front of her, hurts/upsets her so much, so have to try remain stoic/bottle it in..

I wouldn't wish what i am going through my Mum on my worst enemy.
I don’t believe bottling your emotions is good for anyone mate.

You’re mum will forget you being upset anyway but you are basically grieving bc you are losing a part of your mum every day.

Dementia and Alzheimer are cruel ****ing diseases bc they just don’t affect the individual, it affects everyone involved ☹️
 
I don’t believe bottling your emotions is good for anyone mate.

You’re mum will forget you being upset anyway but you are basically grieving bc you are losing a part of your mum every day.

Dementia and Alzheimer are cruel ****ing diseases bc they just don’t affect the individual, it affects everyone involved ☹️

Thanks so much DP.

What is worse is, i should have fallseen this with what happened to my beloved Taita (grandma) and most of my Aunts, but it still is a *ing kick in the teeth, especially as Mum really was the only parent that ever cared for us (me and my older brother whom i am currently estranged/not talking to)

AlHamdullah (thank God) I have my Cat Leela, or i would be a complete emotional basketcase.
 
Thanks so much DP.

What is worse is, i should have fallseen this with what happened to my beloved Taita (grandma) and most of my Aunts, but it still is a *ing kick in the teeth, especially as Mum really was the only parent that ever cared for us (me and my older brother whom i am currently estranged/not talking to)

AlHamdullah (thank God) I have my Cat Leela, or i would be a complete emotional basketcase.
It’s funny how comforting fur family can be! I’m currently sitting outside with my beardy on my lap and watching my kitten running around like a made campaigner 🥰
 
It’s funny how comforting fur family can be! I’m currently sitting outside with my beardy on my lap and watching my kitten running around like a made campaigner 🥰

I am not super religious, but i have always felt God lives in the heart/souls of any beloved pet we own (regardless of species), cause of their uncondtional love, trust and faith they place in us.

Cats especially are miracle/emotionally nourishing and rewarding pets, no wonder The Pharoahs/Ancient Egyptians worshipped them !
 
I am not super religious, but i have always felt God lives in the heart/souls of any beloved pet we own (regardless of species), cause of their uncondtional love, trust and faith they place in us.

Cats especially are miracle/emotionally nourishing and rewarding pets, no wonder The Pharoahs/Ancient Egyptians worshipped them !
Cats are arrogant campaigners 😂😂

They do as they please but I love that about them. I’m actually a dog person but this little kitten is treated like a bloody king but at 3 in the morning he can **** right off
 
Hasn't really felt like the festive season this year. Nothing bad has happened to me personally, just haven't gotten into the spirit. Not being a grinch, just feel indifferent this year.
 
Hasn't really felt like the festive season this year. Nothing bad has happened to me personally, just haven't gotten into the spirit. Not being a grinch, just feel indifferent this year.
Christmas as a kid had such a long and magical build up. Totally different as an adult. It’s more like “oh, Christmas is tomorrow!?”
 

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Christmas as a kid had such a long and magical build up. Totally different as an adult. It’s more like “oh, Christmas is tomorrow!?”

Christmas was only magical as a kid when you still believed in Santa, once you realised that it was all just a lie it lost it's magic.
 
Christmas was only magical as a kid when you still believed in Santa, once you realised that it was all just a lie it lost it's magic.
It's about Jesus who is real.
 

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Pressies are wrapped. Almost time to put out a nip of port for Santa, sit in my favourite chair, and listen to Pink Floyd in the dark with the only light coming from the stereo.

Imagine being 60 years and still celebrating Shitmas lol #childish #concerning
 
My muslim didi driver wished me a 'Merry Christmas' when I stumbled out of his car at 2am on Sunday morning. Jesus is a key figure in the quran after all. :cool:


In all honesty, i have no problems wishing people Merry Chrimbo (i did it the other day to my uber driver) , i.just really laugh when so many lose their nut/mind whem people say or put Happy Holidays on a Xmas tree instead of Merry Christmas.


Anyhow friend, if it makes you feel better, i wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and safe and prosperous new year. You're a good egg.

Rather irritated with how much the final part of Octo O is going, with all the heavy Heaven and Hell stuff. Its not the plot line so much but how much the cut scenes keep dragging on and on and on.

Tbh I find myself really empthazing with Sazanto and his motvation tbh.
 
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