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Scandal Lachie Neale affair

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spenze said:
Maybe just wait, all I am saying. Most folk were on Demis side until the facts came out.

I also know a few people whose relationship ended due to cheating and they turned out to be great parents.

But you do you, be reactionary, jump on the bandwagon and light a torch because someone you don't know might not have lived up to the standards you set for others...kinda a bit Christian
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Well that's great, and I'm sure in time Lachie can learn from his mistakes and also turn out to be a great parent, but as of right now he's just torn apart his family with some pretty selfish actions and may have some work to do to get there.

There's no bandwagon or torch, it's just that for most people who aren't inflicted with contrarianism, behaviour like this is quite obviously condemned for how destructive and hurtful it can be. Amazes me how many are willing to turn a blind eye to it to instead strangely try and justify it, or purely to get some shots in at the victims of the situation.
 
Pure_Ownage said:
Its very unlikely. Family courts for all their advances still tend to bias majority custody towards the majority caregiver and most of the time the woman, particularly when the children are young. Unless there are other safety factors in regards to her mental health etc that lachie can use to rebut that he is highly unlikely to get 50/50, getting 25 % at best is his likely outcome.
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It’s extremely costly and I’d imagine there’d be a lot of people satisfied with the couple of days per week. He wasn’t and he eventually got there. Agree it’s rare, but Neale is the type who will be high earning and time flexible that will be a good candidate. Assuming he goes after it, which if acrimonious, he probably will.
 

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Adecagodelphalaide said:
Well that's great, and I'm sure in time Lachie can learn from his mistakes and also turn out to be a great parent, but as of right now he's just torn apart his family with some pretty selfish actions and may have some work to do to get there.

There's no bandwagon or torch, it's just that for most people who aren't inflicted with contrarianism, behaviour like this is quite obviously condemned for how destructive and hurtful it can be. Amazes me how many are willing to turn a blind eye to it to instead strangely try and justify it, or purely to get some shots in at the victims of the situation.
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It’s perfectly healthy to be so invested in the personal lives of people you see on the TV or follow on insta. The reality is that this stuff is going on all the time and marriages break down constantly. There’s almost always more to it, I for one think it’s only fair that we await Lachie’s Insta update before making final judgement on the parental access and asset division.
 
FootBallORSoccer said:
You need to learn to spell and maybe reread my post...

I spoke about many factors... The actual cheating was never my primary point…
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All of your “factors” were nonsensical. I thought I gave you a clue by mentioning no fault.

The dollars are determined by material factors, not who has suffered pain.

A “team of lawyers”? You’ve been watching too much tv. As for wrapping things quickly, that’s nonsense too.
 
sideswipe said:
All of your “factors” were nonsensical. I thought I gave you a clue by mentioning no fault.

The dollars are determined by material factors, not who has suffered pain.

A “team of lawyers”? You’ve been watching too much tv. As for wrapping things quickly, that’s nonsense too.
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All of your “factors” .

First, I mentioned a few factors—I'm pretty sure they have some significance—see some below...

Dedicated time to the kids/family...

Transformed her career...

Transformed her lifestyle...

Changed her location...

Mental anguish / Public humiliation - so there is restraint with what is said online...

* Neale discussed the move in a speech, highlighting her successful career running a business in WA... but ultimately, she gave it all up for him. Also, in another speech by Neale, she is shown to be a great mother who does all the work for the family.

A “team of lawyers”?

A team could consist of two lawyers, especially since this is a high-profile case with substantial monetary stakes. This isn't a minor divorce dispute. I never said there would be a massive team of lawyers.

This could drag on for a long time...

As for wrapping things quickly, that’s nonsense too.

I said the club and Neale would want this to wrap up quickly. I said Neale may make a very generous offer/settlement to aid in this...
 
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Adecagodelphalaide said:
Well that's great, and I'm sure in time Lachie can learn from his mistakes and also turn out to be a great parent, but as of right now he's just torn apart his family with some pretty selfish actions and may have some work to do to get there.

There's no bandwagon or torch, it's just that for most people who aren't inflicted with contrarianism, behaviour like this is quite obviously condemned for how destructive and hurtful it can be. Amazes me how many are willing to turn a blind eye to it to instead strangely try and justify it, or purely to get some shots in at the victims of the situation.
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As much as I disagree with everything I’ve HEARD about this story, I’m still staunchly against black and white thinking, which is undoubtedly what’s going on here for a lot of people.

Imagine Lachie was your best mate/brother and you heard the same rumours. You’d all of a sudden have the time to hear his side of the story before making any judgements, and I’m sure you’d have a lot more leniency and understanding too. No reason why we can’t extend that to Lachie (yes, while anonymously absolutely burying the campaigner online. Life is complex).
 

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1970crow said:
It’s perfectly healthy to be so invested in the personal lives of people you see on the TV or follow on insta. The reality is that this stuff is going on all the time and marriages break down constantly. There’s almost always more to it, I for one think it’s only fair that we await Lachie’s Insta update before making final judgement on the parental access and asset division.
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I love how having the general human decency to recognise that Neale has done a pretty unsavourable thing is framed as bandwagons, torches and 'being so invested in their personal lives'. Sure there are some at extreme ends of the drama, but I think for the most part people just don't agree with doing that kind of thing, which you would think is pretty common sense?

That stuff is going on elsewhere sure, where those people will also often be condemned by the people around them, it just so happens Neale is a hugely public figure. This of course leads to a lot of gossip and conjecture, the same way it would probably happen in social circles for those not in the public eye.

There may well be more information that completely absolves Lachie of any wrongdoing, again I'd be very intrigued as to what kind of thing would excuse doing that, but at the moment the facts are all pointing a certain way and it makes it pretty obvious to condemn his actions.
 
Paul Medhurst said:
As much as I disagree with everything I’ve HEARD about this story, I’m still staunchly against black and white thinking, which is undoubtedly what’s going on here for a lot of people.

Imagine Lachie was your best mate/brother and you heard the same rumours. You’d all of a sudden have the time to hear his side of the story before making any judgements, and I’m sure you’d have a lot more leniency and understanding too. No reason why we can’t extend that to Lachie (yes, while anonymously absolutely burying the campaigner online. Life is complex).
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I do understand that, it's moreso that rather than making that point, people seem to be prioritising demonising Jules instead with some truly asinine comments about her not being able keep her man happy, weaponising the children, not being justified in wanting to be around her family in WA, I think there was even someone who took it to the level of her white girl privilege or something like that.
 
WillHayward said:
Laughable post.

He's a ****ing gun and WC and Eagles would take him in a heartbeat.

Just laughable stuff
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Freo have said No for a while now. Doesnt fit the list profile and wants too much coin

For Eagles last year was fine but 12 months on and after this. No Thanks. Id rather save the money for a run at Chad Warner
 

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Macca180 said:
Imagine screwing another bird and then having half the country discuss it.

Wild.
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Imagine winning two brownlows and two premierships.

Also wild.

It kind of comes with the territory if you then want to screw around with your wife's instagram influencer best friend.
 
Happy_Neale said:
You don’t think you’d want a 2 x brownlow and premiership player on your list, presumably at a discounted salary?
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Nope. Wrong time in our rebuild to be getting a player of this type. We shedded wage this off season to get younger. Putting it back into a 34 year old feels a one step back move.

I also cant imagine we want the drama. This isnt going away
 
1970crow said:
It’s perfectly healthy to be so invested in the personal lives of people you see on the TV or follow on insta. The reality is that this stuff is going on all the time and marriages break down constantly. There’s almost always more to it, I for one think it’s only fair that we await Lachie’s Insta update before making final judgement on the parental access and asset division.
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I'm at least hoping to see a heart mending emoji update from him
 
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