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I don't wish to appear insensitive or pushy, but could you possibly give us some details or insight into how this event played out and effected you?
I think it would be valuable to the discussion to remove the broader politics, and get a better understanding of the victims
experience.
I'm not big on personal anecdotes on SRP - it's too easy to make s**t up. But FWIW this has been my experience, and I'm told by the different professionals I have spoken to that the impact on me is fairly typical.
I was awoken by a noise at 4am then heard male voices in my house. I shouted out from my bedroom and fortunately they left immediately. They damaged two doors to get in, broke two shed doors and damaged my car trying to hotwire it. After failing to start the car they broke into the house and took my car key. Since then I have been in fear that the burglars might return, or they have passed on the key and my address to other crims.
• My sleep patterns have been extremely disrupted. I lie awake and am startled by any noise. I have had nightmares of having my home intruded again. I have awoken in fright convinced that someone was trying to open my front door. I wake up every night and often stay awake for hours, particularly at 4am - the time when I first heard the burglars in my house.
• I sleep with a pool cue and golf club beside my bed. If I hear a noise I get dressed and feel compelled to check every window and door, and all the bedrooms including the cupboards.
• I have been anxious about having my children stay over. I have ordered us each a personal panic alarm.
• I have been to see a counsellor. She said I am suffering from ‘hyper-vigilance’.
• I have barricaded my garage by placing an old fridge behind the door where the thieves broke in.
• In the days after the home invasion I left my external lights on all night. Since then I have bought additional sensor lights and installed them.
• I have paid $2,500 for a security alarm system for the house.
This was after an incident where the intruders fled immediately. I can only imagine the impact on a 59-year-old woman who was attacked and held hostage in her home by a dozen youths while they ransacked the property.
http://www.theage.com.au/victoria/s...onnection-to-her-husband-20180105-h0e6w9.html