I seriously had no idea. All good.Most of the time it isn't a thing, but if someone is talking about a black person how would you know? I only whinge about it when people use it when referring to black people and frankly if people want to keep doing that they will, but I won't shut up about it.
spade 2. The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language: Fourth Edition. 2000.
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