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This is the reason children why you shouldnt use dingers from year 7 sex ed class when you are 18.

Should of just hardened up at the time mentioned she copped your load maybe get the morning after pill, now if she is pregnant you are ****ed
 

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there's been some cracker responses to this thread, and i've enjoyed reading them but in all seriousness what the op describes is probably my worst fear. I can't imagine how you'd feel knowing you've possibly knocked some skank up, want nothing to do with her yet she'll be popping out a child of yours come 9 months. I don't really have any advice but you sure as hell have my sympathy. It's most guys worst fears.
 
Funkyzeit mit Matt said:
Oh shit, this is my worst fear. Luckily I never get laid.

Anyway, taking this question to BigFooty has been one of the 2 best decisions you have made in recent weeks.

keep up the good work.
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That is fantastic.

Not much you can do. Explain that a long term relationship was never part of the equation. All girls understand that don't they ?

Let her know that a paternity test will be required cos if she went home with you, she has probably had experience elsewhere also !

Finally, if the child ends up being yours. You should try to be a good Dad because it is one of the best things that you can do.
 
I'm hoping to top off your great week, that the dominant gene in the child to be is for bright red hair. :thumbsu:

Potential for regular beatings will be high as you take out your combined frustration of having an annoying redheaded nightmare all because that one night it all went wrong with his now drug addled and hopeless excuse for a mother..... then...years later, he'll muscle up and come back at you wanting a bloody revenge... I hope you'll be ready.....

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It must be a very stressing time for you. Take up yoga as the deep breathing and streching will relieve your tension. Also when she comes back with the positive news you'll be flexible enough to bend over and kiss your sorry arse goodbye. :thumbsu:
 
Hoffy95 said:
Yeah, God forbid people going out, getting drunk and trying to pick up. :rolleyes:
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I've done it a few times but I was careful. Unfortunately for some people they're too legless or too ****in horny and desperate to get into some skanks pants that they don't actually think about what they're doing.

No sympathy here.
 
fryingpan said:
I've done it a few times but I was careful. Unfortunately for some people they're too legless or too ****in horny and desperate to get into some skanks pants that they don't actually think about what they're doing.

No sympathy here.
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He wore a condom. What more did you want him to do? Pull his old fella out after every thrust for a surface check?

If he didn't wear protection then he's playing Russian roulette, but he took the necessarily precautions.

In hindsight he should have finished up by making her face look like a painter's radio, but no-ones to know there's a tear when caught up in the moment.
 

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It's time like that I'm happy I can't get laid, hey you could always sue the condom makers and flee to Iran.

Seriously like others have said that's the most feared thing. I would probably top myself before I confronted that.

Man made prison, children and marriage.
 
JimDocker said:
Let her know that a paternity test will be required cos if she went home with you, she has probably had experience elsewhere also !

Finally, if the child ends up being yours. You should try to be a good Dad because it is one of the best things that you can do.
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That is the absolute truth.

**** the political correctness - if she's spreading her legs the night she met you, chances are she's done it for other blokes in the past too. Get a paternity check if she wants to keep it. If you aren't the father but end up paying child support you're not supposed to, that's an 18 year sentence you clearly don't deserve.

If you are the father - time to man up.

Unplanned pregnancies really should involve mature discussion between the mother and father though, and no this doesn't mean trying to shove each person's view in the other's face. If you're mature enough to decide to have sex, you should be mature enough to be able to discuss the pregnancy accordingly.

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Everyone knows the risks though. Wear two if you have to.
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Oh dear, and the two sentences were back to back too :eek:
 
Power King said:
If you are the father - time to man up.

Unplanned pregnancies really should involve mature discussion between the mother and father though, and no this doesn't mean trying to shove each person's view in the other's face. If you're mature enough to decide to have sex, you should be mature enough to be able to discuss the pregnancy accordingly.
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Good, mature advice.

But it would be so hard

The thought of nappies, and having no freedom and the nappies and being thrust together with someone you not only don't love but you have zero respect for and will learn to despise her in time for taking away your life.
 

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