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Does he have limp wrists? The ultimate betrayal of a gay man
Health advice please...
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Hard to go past this.
And pics please.
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Light a **** on fire and put it at his doorstep.
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Hooley McBoob
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If he's more effeminite than your gay best friend/neighbour then I'd say you have problems babe.
Do you think he would be offended if you just had a few wines and asked him?
Do you think he would be offended if you just had a few wines and asked him?
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hi hools
i have probably already asked him, anyway, i'm getting over him... somehow
in the mean time
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ok, i am taking the piss a bit, because its funny
its not often i like someone because i'm really shy. I honestly think me and this guy will end up being best mates... he's a really nice person
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I will lend you my 2 year old son for a day. He has the best gaydar.
He never gets uncle and auntie mixed up as lots of small children do. Always Auntie Margaret, Uncle Paul etc....
But his Auntie Bec has a gay best friend and my son calls him Auntie !!!!
All involved think it is hilarious. He will call your friend out no problem.
On a more serious note, tell him of your feelings and let him know that his friendship is the most important thing to you, but you may have deeper feelings and just wonder if he has any for you.
That would not be easy. But honesty is the best policy.
He never gets uncle and auntie mixed up as lots of small children do. Always Auntie Margaret, Uncle Paul etc....
But his Auntie Bec has a gay best friend and my son calls him Auntie !!!!
All involved think it is hilarious. He will call your friend out no problem.
On a more serious note, tell him of your feelings and let him know that his friendship is the most important thing to you, but you may have deeper feelings and just wonder if he has any for you.
That would not be easy. But honesty is the best policy.
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lol that is so funny, kids know more than we realise.
he knows i like him. He said that he doesn't believe i'm "the one" but has very strong feelings for me. I basically feel the same way. I am positive him and i will end up being the best of friends but to get there we have to go through this emotional shitty time.
edit, he just texted me, i've been holding out contacting him since i last saw him (monday), it was hard at times, but i did it. I will ignore his text. Must. be. strong.
he knows i like him. He said that he doesn't believe i'm "the one" but has very strong feelings for me. I basically feel the same way. I am positive him and i will end up being the best of friends but to get there we have to go through this emotional shitty time.
edit, he just texted me, i've been holding out contacting him since i last saw him (monday), it was hard at times, but i did it. I will ignore his text. Must. be. strong.
What did the text say?
Did he use the words 'super' or 'fabulous' at all?
Did he use the words 'super' or 'fabulous' at all?
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Nicky, you are probably hot looking and a great chick...there are plenty of other fish out there other than a guy who is potentially a sneaky butcher. I say grab another bloke and forget about Ricky Martin.
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Thankyou, great advice.
I will follow your advice. I honestly rarely meet guys because when i'm out i'm with my friends and just want to hang out with them. The only reason i'm with this guy is because i've gotten to know him in my zone.
But yes, i'll move on and just be good friends with him, eventually.
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Something along the lines of you want to smoke him instead?
nah, i have more of a mind spirit connection with him, which is usually the opposite to what i go for ie. physical connection.
Meaning, i don't talk dirty towards him.
I will ignore his text.
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Easily fixed Nicky.
Ask him to whistle for you.
It's a physical fact that a gay man cannot whistle.
Ask him to whistle for you.
It's a physical fact that a gay man cannot whistle.
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Just ask him.
Tell him your gay mate thought he was hot or something; just make up some bullshit to justify asking the question.
At least then you'll get an answer instead of guessing/assuming and possibly being wrong.
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Watch this movie, will clear things right up
And just remember, all gay people need is a bit of deep dickin.....wait. Oh noes!
And just remember, all gay people need is a bit of deep dickin.....wait. Oh noes!
All joking aside, that sounds very typical of some gay guys. A lot of gay guys fall in love with women (social conditioning perhaps?) but simply aren't attracted to them. I know a guy who spent about 10 years in an unhappy, unfulfilled, childless marriage with a women he was in love with, only to realise he was gay. Since then, he's tried to have gay relationships, and none have ever stuck, because he has never fallen in love with a man. He's now a 60 year old homosexual man who has only ever been in love with women.
Your friend might be having a similar sort of problem; it could be that he feels very strongly for you, maybe even loves you (which you pick up on, and which in turn strengthens and validates your feelings for him), but ultimately isn't SEXUALLY attracted to you, which obviously would hold him back. Even if he doesn't realise he's gay, it would just be something that isn't quite right.
Alternatively, he could be straight and just not that into you.... Sometimes it happens like that, for no good reason.
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Just dress up provocatively, flirt and hit on him. If he rejects you, he's gay. There is no way a straight guy would say no to those advances.
