He thinks it’s fun and games. Banter. Gets on everyone’s nerves though.
Am I the jerk here?
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i was in a relationship once for a reasonable amount of time (approx a year) and had an argument one day and we both did the were not going to call the other person until they ring or message first.
we havent spoken in 12 years.
not sure whos the bigger jerk in that one. (its her)
we havent spoken in 12 years.
not sure whos the bigger jerk in that one. (its her)
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i deleted her number a very long time ago just so i couldnt do that.
if we're being childish, i want to win. or at least hold out for a draw
Thinking on this, he is a bit of a dick! He lives around the corner and we’ve been friends for over a decade though. I figure I just have to call him out on his bullshit now.
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What was the argument about. We need details to decide
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about driving. she was a bit of a leadfoot in the car, i asked to her slow down a few times when she used to drive, she got upset cos she had to drive me around as i just had an ankle reco and couldnt drive. she thought as she was driving me i shouldnt criticise her.
it really wasnt all that serious
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Nah im on your side with this one.
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I had one of those. About 25 years ago. Just stopped talking. Neither could be bothered.
Other way around for me.
My mates were hard to catch up with when they were single or had girlfriends.
A few have had kids and they seem to want to catch up more than usual, one was telling me how frustrated he was getting and that no one was free to do anything and my response was "our 20's was the time we all should of been hanging out".
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I work full time (usually 50 hours a week) and have my son 5 days a week. I dont get much free time so I just let friends know I may come along but will confirm either way as soonas I can.
"hey, who's free for the pub tonight?"
"Yeah"
*Proceed to message missus whilst we're out*
Does anyone else find this extremely ******* annoying?
"Yeah"
*Proceed to message missus whilst we're out*
Does anyone else find this extremely ******* annoying?
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I don't care who you are texting, if we're going to the pub and you're just going to sit on your phone the whole time you can *en stay home.
He sounds like a dick.
I am 32 and if someone doesn't want to hang out I don't make an issue of it and just say all good, hopefully next time.
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My mate who comes to the footy maybe once a year with us spends half the time looking at her phone.
Doesnt worry me in the slightest- as a rule at the footy, phone stays in my bag except for quarter/half times.
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I'm on her side here.
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I am on the side of the missus as well.
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He's pretty much stuck and cant drive himself.
If he wants her to ease off and stop speeding like a dickhead, she should do it.
If he wants her to ease off and stop speeding like a dickhead, she should do it.
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Or maybe she is a good driver within her limits and he is a s**t driver....
She is doing him a favor, not the other way round. Got home safe didn't he?
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If they then tell you to shut the * up then you shut the * up and don't keep going on about it. He said he mentioned it a few times which she then has every right to get upset. She is doing him a favour- not the other way around.
Every 10-20 minutes let's say. Doesn't seem like much, but you're out with the blokes for a few hours for one night, how hard can it be to not be in contact ffs?
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