Cheating on your partner

[Jars458]

Re: Re: Gauge by thier profession...

Originally posted by Katthawk
This is a VERY good sentiment. I wish more people would think this way.

So anyone who has ever cheated on someone has no heart or sole and is filth??

Far too simplistic and silly.

 

[Bee]

Originally posted by Jars458
Yes - I agree

But what if you love both??? Which is defintley possible. It would be a different kind of love possibly - but still love.

Don't know if I would ever want to be in that situation. Being in love with two people and wanting to be with both of them. That would not be a nice situation to be in. And I am not so sure you could be in love with two people at once. I know some people will disagree with that, but I know I couldn't do it.
But what I was really saying was, if you meet someone else, fall in love with them and break up your relationship to be with them is that still construed as cheating?

 

[M29]

Originally posted by Yianni
PRESUMPTION ALERT
---That you cannot be in love with more than one person at once---

You can root more than one person at once...

Well I can, anyway...

 

[M29]

Originally posted by Britney Spears
Gunshot to the head?

Most women that commit homocide using poison, arsnic, the 'secret herb' of choice which the she'll use in her cooking. (How appropriate.)

Sure, they could use a shot gun. But therein lies a dilema. The cleaning up his brians of the kitchen floor and walls. Um... Well, maybe not, they enjoy doing chores like that.

Secondly they don't know how to operate a car, or VCR, let alone a shot gun. Even if it came with a manual.

 

[TheBloods]

Originally posted by Bee
Don't know if I would ever want to be in that situation. Being in love with two people and wanting to be with both of them. That would not be a nice situation to be in. And I am not so sure you could be in love with two people at once. I know some people will disagree with that, but I know I couldn't do it.

This is definitely possible.

But what I was really saying was, if you meet someone else, fall in love with them and break up your relationship to be with them is that still construed as cheating?

Of course not assuming nothing has happened before the break up. You've left your old partner, hence are free to see anyone you choose.

 

[mandy]

Originally posted by Chiz
Hypothetical:

If you found out that your partner was cheating on you or had cheated on you, would you end the relationship?

I would end a relationship a million times quicker if he came to me and told me had feelings for someone else. Sex I could possibly forgive, but I'd feel more betrayed if he had spent time with, laughed with and created some kind of emotional bond with another.

That would truly break my heart and I would never forgive it.

 

[Spidergirl~RiCkChiCk]

Originally posted by mandy5
I would end a relationship a million times quicker if he came to me and told me had feelings for someone else. Sex I could possibly forgive, but I'd feel more betrayed if he had spent time with, laughed with and created some kind of emotional bond with another.

That would truly break my heart and I would never forgive it.

Too true Mandy

 

[Katthawk]

Re: Re: Re: Gauge by thier profession...

Originally posted by Jars458
So anyone who has ever cheated on someone has no heart or sole and is filth??

Far too simplistic and silly.

Of course it is, but it would be nice if people thought before they went ahead. I was merely agreeing with the positive sentiments rather than the one about cheaters being filth which is of course not always the case. Sheesh! I am not that naive.

 

[CURVE]

Before my wife and I got married, I'd caught her with a number of woman. I still watch the videos when she's not around.

 

[Beffery]

Originally posted by Chiz
Hypothetical:

If you found out that your partner was cheating on you or had cheated on you, would you end the relationship?

It happened to me and I ended it there and then without a second thought. Cheating bastard scum

Can you tell I'm still a bit bitter over the whole thing?

 

[Squeak]

Originally posted by DEVO
Before my wife and I got married, I'd caught her with a number of woman. I still watch the videos when she's not around.

Name your price.

 

[CURVE]

Originally posted by Squeak
Name your price.

Not for sale. Sorry.

 

[Lockyer24]

I've never cheated (not hard when you rarely have gf's) but I have helped others cheat before...am I bad?

 

[Au_Blue#24]

Originally posted by DEVO
Not for sale. Sorry.

come on devo - you are from canberra arncha ??

 

[CURVE]

Originally posted by Au_Blue#24
come on devo - you are from canberra arncha ??

Yes, but I don't have a license to sell pr0n, besides my Lawyer Wife would probably kill me.

 

[Minkus_Swan]

Originally posted by DEVO
Before my wife and I got married, I'd caught her with a number of woman. I still watch the videos when she's not around.

Damn, I thought you were Thomas Muster

 

[maccas_no1]

It is simple dont cheat,my wife had an affair and it hurt me like hell I am through alot of it now but I still think about all the lies and bull**** I went through when is happened and everything it cost me daughter,job,house everything I have had to start again but I know I will be a better person in the end not her

 

[Ivy]

My ex-husband had an affair and ended up leaving our marriage for the other girl. It hurt really bad and it took me a long time to get over it. Sometimes I am not certain that I am completely over it. I have never been a vindictive person but I have hated both of them ever since. Perhaps if he had only had a fling with her it would have been easier but the fact he fell in love with her is what made it a lot harder to take.

 

[gerling]

Originally posted by Ivy
My ex-husband had an affair and ended up leaving our marriage for the other girl. It hurt really bad and it took me a long time to get over it. Sometimes I am not certain that I am completely over it. I have never been a vindictive person but I have hated both of them ever since. Perhaps if he had only had a fling with her it would have been easier but the fact he fell in love with her is what made it a lot harder to take.

Why did he do it? Were you not pulling your weight in the relationship?

 

[Ivy]

Originally posted by gerling
Why did he do it? Were you not pulling your weight in the relationship?

Obviously not!

 

[TheFoxhat]

Do head jobs count ......I'll just go & ask uncle Bill about that one....

"I did not have sexual relations with that WOMAN "

Bill Clinton....

 

[Spidergirl~RiCkChiCk]

Originally posted by gerling
Why did he do it? Were you not pulling your weight in the relationship?

Thats actually true every boyfriend i had been with cheated on me. Never slept with them so putting two and two together i'd say that is why!

 

[Duffman95]

Originally posted by Saint4Life
Not good. Seriously... if u dont wana be with the person, just tell them. And if u are gona do it, just think before hand, is it worth loosing what ive got?

What have you got?

 

[Stucey]

Originally posted by gerling
Why did he do it? Were you not pulling your weight in the relationship?

I think he must have been too busy pulling his own weight to treat his wife properly.

 

[carlyp]

Originally posted by Stucey
I think he must have been too busy pulling his own weight to treat his wife properly.

gold!!!!