Cheating Thread

[Broken]

I hope not because I know my ex cheated on her ex...with me.

I hope for your sake you're the exception.

 

[Kcrack]

I hope for your sake you're the exception.

Well she hated her ex, told me she's tried breaking up with him multiple times and he always sooks and breaks down when she did. Her brother also told me she slept on the couch by herself for the last 6 months or so they were together etc. That been said, we've been together for 5 years now, we actually work together too >_> (yeah I know). When she goes out, she goes out with my sisters/cousins so if cheating is happening, I'm sure I would of been told by someone.

..now if I actually found out she had been cheating, I'd dump her then and there, kick her out of my house and I'd be planning a trip to America for some whoring around.

 

[Cthublhu]

Don't want to gazump your story here but a mate of my porked a girl a few times (he met her on teh interwebz) and she asked him over to a BBQ. He went over there and there were about 5 other dudes there. He got talking to one who also said he met her on the internet. And that he had also porked her. And that the dude cooking the BBQ was her husband. Looks like they wanted to get my mate involved in a "sreaming eagle" whilst the hubby watched from the closet. He made his excuses and left.

Never cheated on Mrs Cthublhu and never will. But if I was single and in your mate's situation I'd have stuck around. Ok, you're never going to have a long-term relationship with the slapper but you'd still get your end away.

 

[Wright Away]

I apparently stole my girlfriend from her ex because she apprenently started seeing me while still together with the ex. Though really what happened is they broke up and for months he kept people convinced they were still together with the intention of getting back together with her and not having the embarrasment to explain it to other people. Sort of cheatee in the eyes of some people.

This drop kick then went on to immediately seeing a single mother and within weeks got her pregnant and broke up with her.

 

[blue_bear1]

I apparently stole my girlfriend from her ex because she apprenently started seeing me while still together with the ex. Though really what happened is they broke up and for months he kept people convinced they were still together with the intention of getting back together with her and not having the embarrasment to explain it to other people. Sort of cheatee in the eyes of some people.

This drop kick then went on to immediately seeing a single mother and within weeks got her pregnant and broke up with her.

Sounds like a real charmer.

 

[blue_bear1]

Many, many times. On different girls. Over many years now.. It may be due to a different set of morals where I live. It's almost widely accepted here in Russia. Strangely, I would say that most of the ladies I've been with here have had boyfriends/husbands. Not sure if I've ever been cheated on, but I'd say it's very likely. For some reason that does not worry me in the slightest.

Sometimes I ask myself why I bother having a g/f if I do this. But I don't feel at all guilty about it. It's almost bipolar behaviour, where I can separate normal life from the occasional crazy weekend as if it's two different people.

I don't believe it's the right thing to do, but I also cannot live without this variety/stability combination. When you can have your cake and eat it too, it becomes addictive.

Again, perhaps this is more a product of the local culture here...

Is anyone else in the same boat?

Sounds like a bit of a cop out to me. If you want to have your cake and eat it too have you thought about having an "open" relationship with your gf rather than cheating? I don't think deception is ever good for a relationship.

 

[vealesy]

Sounds like a bit of a cop out to me. If you want to have your cake and eat it too have you thought about having an "open" relationship with your gf rather than cheating? I don't think deception is ever good for a relationship.

Sounds like paradise to me. Viva le ruski?

 

[Marklar_33]

Cheated on my maths exam in year 11.

Got this mental picture of a bloke shagging a science book, or something similar...

 

[Stratton_Gun]

That's a whole new topic in itself though- the definition of cheating!

Reminds me of an episode of the King of Queens. If anyone watches that?

 

[Schulzenfest]

Nobody with taste does.

 

[the fly]

If you're travelling, and somebody whom you know to be married with kids spends half an hour banging on your door wanting a root, is it wrong to oblige?

 

[edgie]

Reminds me of an episode of the King of Queens. If anyone watches that?

I watch it. Was actually gonna bring it up in the unpopular opinion thread when the conversation shifted to 90s sitcoms

 

[MWPP]

If you're travelling, and somebody whom you know to be married with kids spends half an hour banging on your door wanting a root, is it wrong to oblige?

Yes ! And unless you're fine with being on the other side of that situation (ie in the married spouse, or one of the kid's shoes, and your spouse/parent did that) , I don't see how anyone could not find it wrong.

 

[Stratton_Gun]

wow a lot of people are cheating dickheads

 

[Stratton_Gun]

I watch it. Was actually gonna bring it up in the unpopular opinion thread when the conversation shifted to 90s sitcoms

You remember the episode where Deacon "cheats" on Kelly? that was the episode I was referring to

 

[Igloo]

You remember the episode where Deacon "cheats" on Kelly? that was the episode I was referring to

I think I've seen nearly every episode of King of Queens (1am on channel 11, I can never sleep until like 4am ) and I think I know the one you're talking about.

 

[the fly]

Yes ! And unless you're fine with being on the other side of that situation (ie in the married spouse, or one of the kid's shoes, and your spouse/parent did that) , I don't see how anyone could not find it wrong.

That's why it took so long for me to let him in.

 

[Stratton_Gun]

I think I've seen nearly every episode of King of Queens (1am on channel 11, I can never sleep until like 4am ) and I think I know the one you're talking about.

one of my favourites. where he meets up with some old college friend without telling Kelly and a heated debate about what classifies as cheating ensues

 

[Matera92]

Never cheated, however was cheated on. Was a girl I was pretty into, found out that she had hooked up with a dealer behind my back to get her fix, (didn't know she was using at the time but that's another story).

When I found out wasn't too impressed. This girl had a twin sister who I was pretty good friends with at the time, she invited me around to have a chat and keep me company. We had a few drinks and before I knew it we were going at it on her sisters/my ex's bed.

Best thing about it was we took photo's and left it on the dirty sheets for her to find when she got home.

 

[Drakescoffeecake]

I'd like to say I wouldn't, but if an opportunity came up to have sex with the one person in the world I've wanted to fornicate since forever, it'd be hard to say no. Also believe that if your partner is not meeting your needs sexually (and you have tried to discuss it with them etc) then it's okay to have sex with someone else providing your partner knows that you're doing so for that one and only purpose.

I think more people cheat than not IMO. Was talking to a friend of mine of the weekend who has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for 7-8 years now. Always considered them to be the steady couple that never had any problems. Turns out she's cheated on him three times after she found suggestive texts in his phone to another woman.

They've also had a foursome with a gay couple.

 

[kfc1]

Also believe that if your partner is not meeting your needs sexually (and you have tried to discuss it with them etc) then it's okay to have sex with someone else providing your partner knows that you're doing so for that one and only purpose.

It's not cheating if your partner is cool with it.

 

[MWPP]

It's not cheating if your partner is cool with it.

Yeah and actually, as I alluded to in a previous post, IMO it's not cheating if they know about it ie it's not behind their back(regardless of whether they're cool with it or not)

 

[MWPP]

I'd like to say I wouldn't, but if an opportunity came up to have sex with the one person in the world I've wanted to fornicate since forever, it'd be hard to say no. Also believe that if your partner is not meeting your needs sexually (and you have tried to discuss it with them etc) then it's okay to have sex with someone else providing your partner knows that you're doing so for that one and only purpose.

I think more people cheat than not IMO. Was talking to a friend of mine of the weekend who has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for 7-8 years now. Always considered them to be the steady couple that never had any problems. Turns out she's cheated on him three times after she found suggestive texts in his phone to another woman.

They've also had a foursome with a gay couple.

If the emphasis is on " that your partner knows" (ie you tell them about it before you go through with it, rather than you doing it behind their back/them finding out later/you explaining that this was the one and only purpose when trying to defend yourself), then yes, I agree. Otherwise, I don't think it's ok.

 

[____]

Never cheated on anyone (but again never been in a relationship that's lasted longer than a week), but I had a girlfriend who I suspected was the type of girl who would cheat on me (she hit on other guys when I went to the movies with her) so I ended it there and then. Only lasted three days. She lives a fair distance from me anyway and I haven't seen her since.

 

[CrippsonBlue]

I have so many questions about that story.