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Cheating Thread
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Quivorir
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Nope. One of the worst things you can do to someone imo. Especially if they care about you, would be absolutely shattered if my Mrs cheated on me.
Miqar_Baqfhied
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Pashed a chic at a nightclub once when I was seeing my last GF. Felt pretty bad. Thats the worst Ive done.
Cheating is rife - so many people are oblivious to it. A lot of people I know relentlessly cheat on their partners.
I porked a bird once for a one night stand and next morning she said she was married!!! I freaked out. Then to make matters worse she wanted to hook up again the next day!
Get the feeling though that a lot of long term relationships almost rely on cheating or flirting to survive - i.e an outsource of built up frustration.
Cheating is rife - so many people are oblivious to it. A lot of people I know relentlessly cheat on their partners.
I porked a bird once for a one night stand and next morning she said she was married!!! I freaked out. Then to make matters worse she wanted to hook up again the next day!
Get the feeling though that a lot of long term relationships almost rely on cheating or flirting to survive - i.e an outsource of built up frustration.
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Macca19
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Cheated on my 1st GF. Told her about it and she admitted she had done similar. We sort of laughed about it and figured no harm done. We broke up a few months later.
Cheated on my 2nd GF, with my 1st GF and broke up with her about 2 days later to go back with the 1st GF. Was a mistake to go back, but would have broken up with GF2 regardless.
Thats it. Didnt cheat on other GFs or my wife and couldnt imagine myself having a reason behind doing it.
Cheated on my 2nd GF, with my 1st GF and broke up with her about 2 days later to go back with the 1st GF. Was a mistake to go back, but would have broken up with GF2 regardless.
Thats it. Didnt cheat on other GFs or my wife and couldnt imagine myself having a reason behind doing it.
Rustin Cohle
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Cheated on my maths exam in year 11.
never cheated. it just clashes with my values so much. how would you feel if you were cheated on? i think it is prevalent in society, it is no more common now than it was 30-40 years ago, there are simply more avenues to do it and similarly get found out.
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No, never cheated and never will
Second GF cheated on me and I felt like shit. Made the decision to never do it to anyone.
I don't care if people do, as long as i'm not affected by it.
Second GF cheated on me and I felt like shit. Made the decision to never do it to anyone.
I don't care if people do, as long as i'm not affected by it.
blue_bear1
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No I couldn't do it. Not a nice way to treat another human being.
Rusty22
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Never cheated but have been used a couple of times by someone to cheat. Didn't know before otherwise wouldnt have done it. Felt like shit when I found out.
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Nope. Been cheated on once, and that felt like shit, so I wouldn't do it to someone else, especially since I'd obviously care about them if i'm in a relationship with them.
I sometimes wonder if I would be the "cheatee", as in, someone in a relationship cheats on their significant other with me. Not sure if I'd do that either. Maybe if I knew the guy was a prick, but i'm not sure.
I sometimes wonder if I would be the "cheatee", as in, someone in a relationship cheats on their significant other with me. Not sure if I'd do that either. Maybe if I knew the guy was a prick, but i'm not sure.
Never cheated. Been cheated on once, and it was with a mate. Not fun. It would take an awful lot to convince me to give a girl a chance if I knew she'd previously cheated on someone. Almost every cheater I know is a serial offender.
My first one-nighter was, I found out the next morning, with an engaged girl. Still feel bad about that one, but in retrospect she was always going to go home with someone that night - it just happened to be me.
My first one-nighter was, I found out the next morning, with an engaged girl. Still feel bad about that one, but in retrospect she was always going to go home with someone that night - it just happened to be me.
Never. More than happily married 
the fly
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I've never cheated on anybody, but I have a friend with benefits who is married.
I was the goalie in a social game of soccer once, there were no nets on the goal. the other team had a shot and the ref wasn't sure if it went through the goal so he asked me. I said it hadn't even though it really did.
Was cheated on by my first real "love". It went on for months and months and I was pretty young (20) and she was a couple of years older and very worldly and experienced.
She denied it for months and I was so paranoid I nearly drove myself crazy. Actually I did drive myself crazy. Very intense time in my life.
The cheating isn't the thing that bothered me so much, it was more the fact she would say she loved me, and that she wouldn't cheat on me, but I knew she was lying, that hurt. Blatantly lying to someone face to face, eye to eye, when you love them is really really horrible.
Eventually I got what I wanted and got solid proof she was doing it. She had Daddy issues and no amount of sex and kinky shit was ever going to keep her faithful. She was just a pure nympho. I moved on but it took a LONG time and it's probably shaped a part of me still to this day.
Now just recently I cheated on my girlfriend and we broke up. We were together for two and a half years.
Again, she had Daddy issues (don't ask me how I always end up with these ladies), and she was a really really awesome woman. However, for her, she dealt with her issues in reverse to the other one. She just wasn't interested in sex.
It started out ok obviously because she was with a new guy so she wanted to impress, but after a while it all went down hill sexually. She wasn't interested and never came. Every position bar missionary hurt her and she couldn't handle me going down on her. She used to cry a lot of the time after sex, and it took it's toll on me. We discussed all of this at great legnth and were completely honest with each other. She even started going to sexual health counselling.
I'm hypersexual (I think due to some of the sexual experiences with the first girl I mentioned) and she just wasn't up for keeping up with me. I tried everything.
Anyone would just say, break it off, it isn't working. Wasn't that easy though. I loved this girl, and considering I'm a relatively cold bastard when it comes to emotions and woman, I really loved her. Not only that, the girl needed me, so badly it wasn't funny.
To be honest, she became a little sister, or a daughter, rather than a girlfriend.
I ended up getting hit on by an 19 year old (who looked 23) at a bar while out with mates who was just absolutely smoking, and really feisty. One thing led to another and we ****ed and it was some of the best sex I'd ever had, probably due to her hotness and my underlying frustration.
I was completely honest and it pains me to think I cheated on someone I loved, especially after it happened to me.
In these strange circumstances I sort of forgive myself though. It was unhealthy for me the way it was. But obviously I should have gone about things a lot better.
But ya know, that's life, and I'll live and learn.
She denied it for months and I was so paranoid I nearly drove myself crazy. Actually I did drive myself crazy. Very intense time in my life.
The cheating isn't the thing that bothered me so much, it was more the fact she would say she loved me, and that she wouldn't cheat on me, but I knew she was lying, that hurt. Blatantly lying to someone face to face, eye to eye, when you love them is really really horrible.
Eventually I got what I wanted and got solid proof she was doing it. She had Daddy issues and no amount of sex and kinky shit was ever going to keep her faithful. She was just a pure nympho. I moved on but it took a LONG time and it's probably shaped a part of me still to this day.
Now just recently I cheated on my girlfriend and we broke up. We were together for two and a half years.
Again, she had Daddy issues (don't ask me how I always end up with these ladies), and she was a really really awesome woman. However, for her, she dealt with her issues in reverse to the other one. She just wasn't interested in sex.
It started out ok obviously because she was with a new guy so she wanted to impress, but after a while it all went down hill sexually. She wasn't interested and never came. Every position bar missionary hurt her and she couldn't handle me going down on her. She used to cry a lot of the time after sex, and it took it's toll on me. We discussed all of this at great legnth and were completely honest with each other. She even started going to sexual health counselling.
I'm hypersexual (I think due to some of the sexual experiences with the first girl I mentioned) and she just wasn't up for keeping up with me. I tried everything.
Anyone would just say, break it off, it isn't working. Wasn't that easy though. I loved this girl, and considering I'm a relatively cold bastard when it comes to emotions and woman, I really loved her. Not only that, the girl needed me, so badly it wasn't funny.
To be honest, she became a little sister, or a daughter, rather than a girlfriend.
I ended up getting hit on by an 19 year old (who looked 23) at a bar while out with mates who was just absolutely smoking, and really feisty. One thing led to another and we ****ed and it was some of the best sex I'd ever had, probably due to her hotness and my underlying frustration.
I was completely honest and it pains me to think I cheated on someone I loved, especially after it happened to me.
In these strange circumstances I sort of forgive myself though. It was unhealthy for me the way it was. But obviously I should have gone about things a lot better.
But ya know, that's life, and I'll live and learn.
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I had a discussion the other week on this subject. One thing I realised is I know a lot of women that have cheated and most are all decent type girls. You would be surprised to know who is cheating out there
A girl I got with at school went to sleep in some guys room at a party (older brother of the host) and I told her I would follow her in later on. I ended up falling asleep on the couch and the brother came home and went to bed...
I'm pretty sure she knew it wasn't me, but its a pretty funny story to tell.
I'm pretty sure she knew it wasn't me, but its a pretty funny story to tell.
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I started going out with this girl early last week decided to go out on the weekend. I had no intention of cheating but before i know it i'm completely smashed and ****** the shit out of this hot 18 year old.
Fair to say i'm pretty disappointed with my self should i tell my current gf? i've never cheated before and i think i've learned my lesson, but i expect most people to tell me ill do it again and such...ect..
Fair to say i'm pretty disappointed with my self should i tell my current gf? i've never cheated before and i think i've learned my lesson, but i expect most people to tell me ill do it again and such...ect..
Keep it to yourself. Don't do it again.
blue_bear1
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They don't sound very decent!
blue_bear1
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If you do decide to tell your gf I suggest you rephrase what happened.
Never been the cheater, or cheated on (to my knowledge), but happily been the cheatee*.
*Only with the caveat that the guy was an absolute douche that I hated.
On the other side of the coin I had a chance with this hot blonde who was the ex of a really close mate of mine who I hadn't seen in a while (drifted apart but were really close), but due to my overwhelming good-blokeyness on the issue I decided not to go there. Move forward a couple of months and I run into the guy, he bails his other plans and we end up hanging out for about 6 hours just catching up and drinking. During this time I discussed the whole thing with him and he basically said that I should have and he would have no problem with it because I'm a good guy.
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*Only with the caveat that the guy was an absolute douche that I hated.
On the other side of the coin I had a chance with this hot blonde who was the ex of a really close mate of mine who I hadn't seen in a while (drifted apart but were really close), but due to my overwhelming good-blokeyness on the issue I decided not to go there. Move forward a couple of months and I run into the guy, he bails his other plans and we end up hanging out for about 6 hours just catching up and drinking. During this time I discussed the whole thing with him and he basically said that I should have and he would have no problem with it because I'm a good guy.
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