- Joined
- May 17, 2009
- Posts
- 8,102
- Reaction score
- 5,344
- Location
- Perth
- AFL Club
- Hawthorn
- Other Teams
- Leeds Utd
-
Rd 5 Reviews + Club Forums »
ADE v CAR · COL v FRE · NM v BL · ESS v MEL · SYD v GCS · HAW v WB · GEE v WCE · GWS v RIC · PA v StK ·
Weekend Wrap and "Liked, Learned, Hated" right here -- How did tipping go?
Cheating Thread
- Thread starter .M a t t.
- Start date
- Tagged users None
🥰 Love BigFooty? Join now for free.
- Joined
- May 17, 2009
- Posts
- 8,102
- Reaction score
- 5,344
- Location
- Perth
- AFL Club
- Hawthorn
- Other Teams
- Leeds Utd
Once. I was completely hammered (not an excuse) and the the girl it was with and I definitely had chemistry. Drunk as I was, I knew what I was doing. I absolutely hated myself for it, won't do it again.
Burnt hand teaches best.
Burnt hand teaches best.
There's this married woman I have a massive urge to do it with.
It seems she feels likewise.
If the opportunity presents itself, we're in!
If anyone really knew her circumstances, they'd understand why she would look outside the marriage, and it's why I don't feel bad about it.
It seems she feels likewise.
If the opportunity presents itself, we're in!
If anyone really knew her circumstances, they'd understand why she would look outside the marriage, and it's why I don't feel bad about it.
- Joined
- Oct 22, 2007
- Posts
- 9,979
- Reaction score
- 1,119
- Location
- Road to nowhere
- AFL Club
- North Melbourne
What's all this 'if their relationship is bad it is okay to help them cheat' business?
As if a person who wants to shag you is going to tell you that their relationship is good, their partner takes good care of them, they are just feeling frisky/like to be naughty/are a nymph etc.
I once got sucked in by a chick telling me her boyfriend (who I knew and got along with well) and her were about to break up, had been on the rocks for a long time etc, and they were going out for lunch the next day and she was going to end it then (unless he beat her to it). Splitsville guaranteed, she was telling me.
Next arvo I popped by ostensibly to hand back some lecture notes I had borrowed, casually asked if 'everything went okay' (expecting her to confirm the 'bad news' so we could get back to where we left off that morning), she replied, 'Yeah, we sorted it all out, we're all good now, thanks for asking'.
Bish seduced me, lied to me about her relationship, just to use me for sex. And this was back when I still believed in morals and all that bullshit, so I felt about two feet tall at this point. I had been that guy who I'd always despised - the third party in the cheat.
That incident taught me that a person who is keen will tell you whatever they have to to get you into the sack (which is obvious about guys but not so obvious about girls). It was also an important lesson in my overall schooling as I went from idealistic moralist to realistic amoralist. Ultimately she did me a favour.
As if a person who wants to shag you is going to tell you that their relationship is good, their partner takes good care of them, they are just feeling frisky/like to be naughty/are a nymph etc.
I once got sucked in by a chick telling me her boyfriend (who I knew and got along with well) and her were about to break up, had been on the rocks for a long time etc, and they were going out for lunch the next day and she was going to end it then (unless he beat her to it). Splitsville guaranteed, she was telling me.
Next arvo I popped by ostensibly to hand back some lecture notes I had borrowed, casually asked if 'everything went okay' (expecting her to confirm the 'bad news' so we could get back to where we left off that morning), she replied, 'Yeah, we sorted it all out, we're all good now, thanks for asking'.
Bish seduced me, lied to me about her relationship, just to use me for sex. And this was back when I still believed in morals and all that bullshit, so I felt about two feet tall at this point. I had been that guy who I'd always despised - the third party in the cheat.
That incident taught me that a person who is keen will tell you whatever they have to to get you into the sack (which is obvious about guys but not so obvious about girls). It was also an important lesson in my overall schooling as I went from idealistic moralist to realistic amoralist. Ultimately she did me a favour.
Log in to remove this Banner Ad
- Joined
- Sep 9, 2011
- Posts
- 3,935
- Reaction score
- 3,260
- Location
- Melbourne
- AFL Club
- Essendon
- Other Teams
- Swansea, Chargers,SF Giants, Bruins
Completely agree. Also, in my opinion, no matter how up-the-creek their relationship is, it is still wrong of them to cheat, and being the third party in such an instance would be no better or worse than if they were in a healthy relationship.
If you already know them, and want to bone them, then wait until they break up. Patience is a virtue, after all.
If you already know them, and want to bone them, then wait until they break up. Patience is a virtue, after all.
- Joined
- Mar 5, 2005
- Posts
- 19,379
- Reaction score
- 9,741
- Location
- Between the Big Sticks
- AFL Club
- West Coast
couldn't do it pesonally
the fly
mmmm, erotic cakes
It's very easy to be the third person when a married man is looking for some action that he can't get from his wife (a strap-on just isn't the same) and can't keep his hands off you.
Kinda the same with me, fly.
Change mine to "married woman" and "from her husband" and (at this stage) "can't keep her eyes off of you".
blue_bear1
Team Captain
- Joined
- Jun 15, 2012
- Posts
- 305
- Reaction score
- 124
- Location
- Perth
- AFL Club
- Geelong
- Other Teams
- blow goats.
Why would a guy use a strap on? I am confused.
- Banned
- #111
Fly is into man love
To me cheating is very cowardly. If you don't care enough about a person not to cheat then you should break up with that person then you can have sex all you want with other people. Stringing someone along that you have no genuine feelings for is very very unfair to that person.
Pre-marriage plenty, but it caught up with my conscience and common courtesy, and the hate for myself eventually outweighed any benefit of sex on the side and need to pad my ego.
blue_bear1
Team Captain
- Joined
- Jun 15, 2012
- Posts
- 305
- Reaction score
- 124
- Location
- Perth
- AFL Club
- Geelong
- Other Teams
- blow goats.
Oh ok. Get it now. Thanks
You know, I'm thinking, is sex it? That is, this emphasis on extra-marital /non-partner sex as the ultimate in human betrayal.
Is it really? (I reckon murder would be the ultimate base level human betrayal).
Is it just an Anglo thing? In some countries flirting with marrieds, having mistresses, etc, is considered the norm, i.e Italy, Spain. Didn't a French politician have a mistress that was widely known and reported on?
I don't know, I think with age I'm mellowing on the whole concept (yes, I wouldn't mind bangin' this married chick I've talked about but this is more than about that).
Life is way too short to be restricting yourself to a handful of sexual partners, whatever their circumstances, and yes, whatever the fallout of such actions are, would have to be dealt with.
Is it really? (I reckon murder would be the ultimate base level human betrayal).
Is it just an Anglo thing? In some countries flirting with marrieds, having mistresses, etc, is considered the norm, i.e Italy, Spain. Didn't a French politician have a mistress that was widely known and reported on?
I don't know, I think with age I'm mellowing on the whole concept (yes, I wouldn't mind bangin' this married chick I've talked about but this is more than about that).
Life is way too short to be restricting yourself to a handful of sexual partners, whatever their circumstances, and yes, whatever the fallout of such actions are, would have to be dealt with.
Make sure your partner knows you have that attitude though. If you don't tell her then you are a coward.
I don't have a solid partner, just floating through life and having fun right now.
You can have sex with a thousand women as long as the women you are sleeping with are not being lied to and are not given the impression you are looking for a long term relationship when in fact you are not.
- Joined
- Jan 25, 2011
- Posts
- 9,156
- Reaction score
- 4,708
- Location
- Melbourne
- AFL Club
- St Kilda
- Other Teams
- Webber, Ricciardo, NE Patriots
He can even if they are lied to and given such an impression.
He probably shouldn't though.
🥰 Love BigFooty? Join now for free.
- Joined
- Jul 15, 2007
- Posts
- 11,999
- Reaction score
- 480
- Location
- East Horsham
- AFL Club
- Brisbane Lions
- Other Teams
- Orlando Magic
let the POS have as many VDs as he deserves
Uncalled for!
