- Sep 30, 2010
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So it has happened twice this year. I wont mention the teams or players involved.
I am coaching an under 12's team who are one of the more successful sides in a lower division. I have coached junior/youth footy for a number of years but have not come across this until this season, and now it has happened twice. The weekend just gone was the worst.
While the ball was up one end of the ground our opposition took the 'physical' game to a whole new level. He started with the niggly small bumps, which progressively got to shoves and elbows in the ribs before my players started retaliating by pushing back. But as soon as this happened, opposition player started throwing full on haymakers at my players for pushing back. I'm not talking little jabs. Opposition player chased my boys for about 20m swinging his arms like a windmill. A few opposition parents laughed but most were very vocal in yelling out to the opposition player that it was unacceptable.
This then happened again in the final quarter of the game involving the same opposition player.
We spoke to the ground marshall who I now believe to be the father of said player. He did nothing. Did not want to know about it. We then spoke to the umpire, but as it happened off the play, the umpire wouldn't/couldn't do anything about it.
So now i'm just after some advice as to how I should get my players to deal with people like this in the future. Obviously we can't just say smash him back. But on the same line we can't say just ignore it. The player was fishing for a reaction and was getting progressively more aggressive until he got one, in his eyes justifying his terrifying response.
Parents who teach/encourage their children these tactics, especially into sub 12 year olds need to wake up to themselves.
I am coaching an under 12's team who are one of the more successful sides in a lower division. I have coached junior/youth footy for a number of years but have not come across this until this season, and now it has happened twice. The weekend just gone was the worst.
While the ball was up one end of the ground our opposition took the 'physical' game to a whole new level. He started with the niggly small bumps, which progressively got to shoves and elbows in the ribs before my players started retaliating by pushing back. But as soon as this happened, opposition player started throwing full on haymakers at my players for pushing back. I'm not talking little jabs. Opposition player chased my boys for about 20m swinging his arms like a windmill. A few opposition parents laughed but most were very vocal in yelling out to the opposition player that it was unacceptable.
This then happened again in the final quarter of the game involving the same opposition player.
We spoke to the ground marshall who I now believe to be the father of said player. He did nothing. Did not want to know about it. We then spoke to the umpire, but as it happened off the play, the umpire wouldn't/couldn't do anything about it.
So now i'm just after some advice as to how I should get my players to deal with people like this in the future. Obviously we can't just say smash him back. But on the same line we can't say just ignore it. The player was fishing for a reaction and was getting progressively more aggressive until he got one, in his eyes justifying his terrifying response.
Parents who teach/encourage their children these tactics, especially into sub 12 year olds need to wake up to themselves.