- Oct 29, 2012
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Hey man. Everyone I know lives up there. Before this year I spent my entire adult life up there. I have a few friends down in Geelong but now two of them want to move back up as well!Where do your best friends live, in QLD?? Even If you don't feel like you have a best friend or best friends I guarantee you have good people you know that would help out if you let them know things aren't 100%. Heck ask if it's okay to sleep on their couch for a few weeks while you look for a job, there'll be someone you know in QLD happy to go out and have a beer and watch the footy on a friday night with you I guarantee it. Just gotta let them know things aren't 100%. Definitely go see a doctor and have a chat if you think you can. It's awesome how quickly things can turn around if you start living with people you like instead of people you can't stand.
Maybe it's not that simple for you and for whatever reason my suggestions don't help for your situation, I don't know all the info, but I reckon if you go out of your way to spend time around people you like then things get easier
Thank you so much for the suggestions but I can't really leave right now. I'm a grown man (22 years old) and somehow my parents have a strangle hold on me. They are extremely controlling, as they were back when I was in high school. They are not bad people at all, and in Greek/European culture parents are expected to be controlling, but I just can't tolerate it. My parents rationalize it by saying that I am the kind of person that needs to be pushed, that I hate going out of my comfort zone, that I'm risk averse etc. I had my struggles up there, and low self esteem is very difficult to overcome, but at the very least I had a great lifestyle, warm weather and a lot less trouble meeting people.
However I am willing to give Victorian life another go. I will stay over the next few months, continuing to save money for a house deposit and then move to Geelong. I don't like Melbourne at all, grew up here and couldn't wait to leave. But if I simply can't take it any more, I'll head back north...and cop the talk about how I'm a bad son or whatever.
I would love to hear some opinions from people with a little more life experience, should I stay down here or head back up?