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Run n Spread said:
Does anyone think depression passes down through genetics? Or upbringing? Or circumstance?
I just had a flashback I'm thinking and getting intto the same ridiculous thought patterns and feelings as when I was 7.
When really I've handled things fine and should tell the rest of the world to jam it.
I've always figured things out myself. My personality maybe ****ed but I can always work things out on my instincts
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Yep absolutely
 
Run n Spread said:
Can you really thou? My life tends to wash up.with the tide and I'm always stuck in the spot
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Yes but it’s hard work mate and you really have to want too. And you may go through utter hell to get to your end goal and you also may find hurdles and walls but its about not giving up… even the smallest goals are a win. 👊🏻
 

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DemurePrincess said:
Yes but it’s hard work mate and you really have to want too. And you may go through utter hell to get to your end goal and you also may find hurdles and walls but its about not giving up… even the smallest goals are a win. 👊🏻
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Fist pump back at you.
But I think we all realise hard work guarantees nothing.
The modern economy is meaningless and pure luck.
Hard work simply burns everyone out
 
Run n Spread said:
Fist pump back at you.
But I think we all realise hard work guarantees nothing.
The modern economy is meaningless and pure luck.
Hard work simply burn as everyone out
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Maybe your mind set needs to be changed…. Negativity breeds negativity and if you’ve had that all your life then that also doesn’t help.

Please don’t think I’m sitting here preaching at you… just trying to help mate.

Not everyday is a good day but I’d like to think I have far more good days than bad 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
DemurePrincess said:
Maybe your mind set needs to be changed…. Negativity breeds negativity and if you’ve had that all your life then that also doesn’t help.

Please don’t think I’m sitting here preaching at you… just trying to help mate.

Not everyday is a good day but I’d like to think I have far more good days than bad 🤷🏼‍♀️
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No I like your posts
 
Run n Spread said:
Does anyone think depression passes down through genetics? Or upbringing? Or circumstance?
I just had a flashback I'm thinking and getting intto the same ridiculous thought patterns and feelings as when I was 7.
When really I've handled things fine and should tell the rest of the world to jam it.
I've always figured things out myself. My personality maybe ****ed but I can always work things out on my instincts
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Genetics can be part of it. Upbringing, circumstances, wealth, experiences, the right support at key devt stages are all bigger factors imo.
 
Soldier Of Misfortune said:
People that claim it can't be a chemical brain fart shit me to tears. They can accept that an epileptic isn't faking it but anything that affects mental health can only be emotional reactions.
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Oh it’s real alright! And it comes when you least expect and can go as quick as that too with the right resources, medication and change of life styles etc.

I had a serotonin imbalance for a long while and I feel that smoking weed contributed a lot to that when I thought it was actually helping
 
Run n Spread said:
Yes but what's happening now. Everything should be going great but I've somehow sunk to the bottom . Again.
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Maybe your chemicals are out of whack. Have things changed in your life?
 

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Run n Spread said:
What do you mean soz
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As in sorry. Just sorry! Nothing more. I didn’t want you to think I was suggested you were slipping mentally! I’ll shut up now. ❤️
 
Run n Spread said:
I'm desperate to escape this 9 till 5 lifestyle and live how we were went to
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Gotta say I have BIG empathy on this. 9 to 5 is not natural. It can be ridiculously hard for some people. Definitely never accept that it's just the way that things are. Living aside from it can take some creativity though because we're not encouraged to look elsewhere than the grind.
 
Soldier Of Misfortune said:
Gotta say I have BIG empathy on this. 9 to 5 is not natural. It can be ridiculously hard for some people. Definitely never accept that it's just the way that things are. Living aside from it can take some creativity though because we're not encouraged to look elsewhere than the grind.
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It's what I've been saying for years
 

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