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Kattahawk

You really need to get into a relationship, even if it turns out bad, leave your parents house, stuff up & then move on & discover yourself, you have to make mistakes to find your true self & happiness. :D
 
I have been working on all of that. Hmm, I have only been subjected to the parental influence for the past um 5 months. Only three weeks to go then freedom!!!

I've tried it all!! It don't work. Maybe I just gotta go back and do it all again.

Excuse me everyone who reads this tomorrow who wonders where my brain was. .. Tnanks Mantis... may that be the last time I say that. ;) :D
 
Hi Katthawk.

The old incorrigable one again. You sound sad. Make today a good day. Everything positive.

PS. If you are have trouble sleeping. ( I am only assuming because of the late hour) just focus on something that you really enjoy. Dont let anything else enter your brain. Whether it be a Big Mac or sunny sky or favourite colour or a large penis or whatever, just focus totally on it. Works for me. (not the organ bit).

Have a happy day.:) :) :) :)
 
Thanks. I sound like an attention seeker. I am at this point. It's nice to hear from you.

I'm always around it seems. Sadly, positive doesn't seem to be in the vocab or the minds of many these days. Enough or I'll start to wallow in self pity.
 

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Originally posted by Katthawk
Thanks. I sound like an attention seeker. I am at this point. It's nice to hear from you.

I'm always around it seems. Sadly, positive doesn't seem to be in the vocab or the minds of many these days. Enough or I'll start to wallow in self pity.
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Your the 1st person that has said that to me on this board. Thank You. Its usually f... off moron or something along those lines. But I just sit back and smile. The occasional stirring of the pot also, but mainly my patriotism shows through. Anyway keep your chin up. Everyone likes some self pity now and then. But from experience I dont reckon it works. There are obvious times when you need a shoulder to cry on, but positive thoughts bring positive events.

I have probably said this before but think of the old analogy (is that the right word) "The glass is half full not half empty." Every event, feeling, emotion etc has a positive side. If you cant find one then move on to the next phase.

Sorry for my ramblings. Enjoy today. F... tomorrow (so to speak)

Cheers.:) :) :) :)
 
Originally posted by skipper kelly
Your the 1st person that has said that to me on this board. Thank You. Its usually f... off moron or something along those lines. But I just sit back and smile. The occasional stirring of the pot also, but mainly my patriotism shows through. Anyway keep your chin up. Everyone likes some self pity now and then. But from experience I dont reckon it works. There are obvious times when you need a shoulder to cry on, but positive thoughts bring positive events.

I have probably said this before but think of the old analogy (is that the right word) "The glass is half full not half empty." Every event, feeling, emotion etc has a positive side. If you cant find one then move on to the next phase.

Sorry for my ramblings. Enjoy today. F... tomorrow (so to speak)

Cheers.:) :) :) :)
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Brilliant post that. I'm a big believer in the 'glass is half full' theory, so to speak. I can't say I've ever been in Katthawk's situation and I hope I never am, but when my parents split I used the exact same thought pattern. Instead of thinking of all the crap that had gone down, I found it a lot easier to deal with by looking on the bright side, focusing on the few positives that came out of it all. I've always thought prolonged self pity is for the weak minded, albeit barring certain situations when it can't be helped.

In the words of Jimmy Barnes - "He ain't worried about tomorrow, cos he just made up his mind, that life's too short for burning bridges, take it one day at a time"

Oh, and **** off moron ;)
 
Originally posted by Docker_Brat
OK, you're at a party and you get pretty trashed so you need a lie down.

You go into a darkened room, lay on the bed and after a while a female friend comes in and tries to get with you.

Only one problem: your girlfriend is also at the party.

What do you do?
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A few thoughts come to mind.

The first is that if you are really trashed you wouldn't be able to make a logical or pragmatic decision, so your decision would be purely based on your personality and emotional state... the decision would say a lot about your relationship with your girlfriend, and your own qualities as a human being.

Another is that if you do decide to go for her, your performance is likely to be so poor that unless she is equally drunk, you risk having a bad reputation... and throwing up on her does not constitute foreplay.

As for me, I wouldn't get trashed in the first place. :D
 
Just pretend you're asleep or something and see what this chick will do to you.....;)

But seriously, the whole idea of having a girlfriend/partner is that you are commited to that one person....so you would have to tell this other girl that you are flattered that she feels this way about you, but you have a girlfriend and that is the person you want to be with.:cool:
 
This all reminds me of the stupid little 12 year old skank who TRIED to kiss my boyfriend on Friday night! mind you he is 21... why the hell would she even think he would want to kiss her and while I was around as well! she was lucky she left when she did!!!!!!!
 
Originally posted by BeCcA
This all reminds me of the stupid little 12 year old skank who TRIED to kiss my boyfriend on Friday night! mind you he is 21... why the hell would she even think he would want to kiss her and while I was around as well! she was lucky she left when she did!!!!!!!
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what the hell are you doing hanging around 12 year olds????

(uhoh, i can see a michael jackson joke coming up)
 
Originally posted by Petrie Dish
Brilliant post that. I'm a big believer in the 'glass is half full' theory, so to speak. I can't say I've ever been in Katthawk's situation and I hope I never am, but when my parents split I used the exact same thought pattern. Instead of thinking of all the crap that had gone down, I found it a lot easier to deal with by looking on the bright side, focusing on the few positives that came out of it all. I've always thought prolonged self pity is for the weak minded, albeit barring certain situations when it can't be helped.

In the words of Jimmy Barnes - "He ain't worried about tomorrow, cos he just made up his mind, that life's too short for burning bridges, take it one day at a time"
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You sound positive. Well done. Keep at it.



Originally posted by Petrie Dish
Oh, and **** off moron ;)
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Aaahhh. That feels better :D :D
 
Surely this is a thread for the great Mooster..
Only Mooster can help you Docker_Brat.

If it twas me I would go the better looking of the two. If for example the better looking was the friend, and nothing went on after that and the girlfriend found out, its all too easy to blame it on the lighting and alcohol.
Quite an ideal situation if you ask me.
 

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Originally posted by sabre_ac
Surely this is a thread for the great Mooster..
Only Mooster can help you Docker_Brat.

If it twas me I would go the better looking of the two. If for example the better looking was the friend, and nothing went on after that and the girlfriend found out, its all too easy to blame it on the lighting and alcohol.
Quite an ideal situation if you ask me.
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The best looking is not always the best.
 
Originally posted by otaku
what the hell are you doing hanging around 12 year olds????

(uhoh, i can see a michael jackson joke coming up)
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:D lol dont worry its not like that!!!
we were at a friends party who invited her cousin who is 17 who brought her sister who is 13 who has friends who are 12 13... it was the worst night ive ever had!!! I feel bad for screaming at a 12/13 year old but she deserved it just thinking about it makes me so mad :mad:
 
Originally posted by goaldrush
you sound like you have dropped your guts.
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You're all class.
 
Originally posted by Jars458
Get her to take all her clothes off and " entertain" herself and then just leave the room

Then you have done nothing wrong and you got a cheap thrill out of it;)
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LOL - except the lights are out so not much help there (unless there is sufficient audio).

So what did you actually do docker_brat?
 

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I think a few people have taken the wrong tack. Who would assume that you'd want to do the woman who snuck in and tried it on?

What to do with the evil creature who put you in this compromising position.
 
Originally posted by Docker_Brat
I think a few people have taken the wrong tack. Who would assume that you'd want to do the woman who snuck in and tried it on?

What to do with the evil creature who put you in this compromising position.
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Depends - how good is your missus in a fight? A good option might have been to walk out, tell your better half what just happened then let them go at it in a nasty cat fight (even better if the house you were in had a cage/mud pit).

Yell "CAT FIGHT" at the top of your lungs, grab a cold brew and enjoy the show. ;)
 

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