pies1958
Team Captain
Its not that he refuses to work its he's fussy about what he does. When he worked with me his work ethic was very poor and often late. He seemed to be late all the time for his last job but he assured me he wasn't, hopefully he can find something he really likes and apply himself accordingly.
@ pies1958 so your Dad worked, did all the house work, cooked and cleaned and gave you handouts. Wow very tough on him, sounds like my wife.
Dad tried to get babysitters and cleaners to help out but my older brother and sister would make sure they never lasted more than one day. We had a tough babysitter once - built like a Mallee bull - who lasted a couple of weeks and gave them a run for their money. The day she quit she flushed my brother's head down the toilet and then walked out.
But yeah my dad did some of the cooking and cleaning. My sister and I helped out with that too sometimes. Although we're not close cos he remarried an ex-nun - who was a Sister of Misery - I still have great respect for him. A single dad with four young kids in the 70s and 80s didn't get much community support. We had an aunty who helped out sometimes though.