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Maybe time will change him. Or an employer will give him an ultimatum and force or persuade a change. Now that he is working give yourself a break. Don't worry about him more than he does about himself. Take a seat in the back and let him drive for a bit while you enjoy the scenery.Haha, yep just moves like he has all the time in the world. Thought of going down to his work and standing out the front saying "you're late"
This job has now turned into an IT-traineeship, absolutely farkin awesomely happy for him, all's good.
Not every child needs to graduate VCE with flying colours and flow straight into a job or a course. There are other avenues to success. If you tap into an interest in them, and they run with the idea, it fits into a lifestyle and combines an interest with a career, suddenly the horizon of their world extends in breadth and depth, even while their focus narrows to the skills required for success in their chosen field.This job has now turned into an IT-traineeship, absolutely farkin awesomely happy for him, all's good.
Fantastic news Copes, couldn't be more happy for both you and your lad.This job has now turned into an IT-traineeship, absolutely farkin awesomely happy for him, all's good.
Thanks. Yeah, it's tough. Money is an issue. But I think if I just give him money all the time (like I have done since he finished VCE at the end of 2012) he will have no motivation to get a job. I am still paying his mobile phone bill every month cos I figure that's useful in getting a job. But that's it. I figure if he needs money to get to job interviews or whatever, I'll top up his Myki card. His mum is ticked off with me because I think she thought he had moved out for good. But the thing is, how does he think he can be independent without a job? And I said to his mum, he can come live with me but only if he gets a job and keeps it. It broke my heart to say that but I work from a home office and if he was home all day I would hassle him every day. The day he got fired from his job (which I didn't know at the time) I was so angry with him because I knew he had a shift and he didn't go because he was still drunk from the night before and had only been in bed two hours. I wanted to throw water in his face! I wish I had have. Sometimes I think we're all too soft with ours kids these days seriously. It wasn't like that was a one-off. Of course teenagers should have fun and be sociable. It's only a problem if that's their whole life and they can't keep a job.pies1958 Its really tough isn't in mate. I think you really have to wait until he wants to work, this will be very frustrating. I see these young guys we employ and most don't give a s**t. As they have advised me here, don't give him any money and he'll probably only be happy if he's in a job he likes. I'm talking here about my son and thats all the advice I know that may help.
Good luck mate.
Just a quick update. The senior IT guy is away and Tylar is doing his job. So proud of him.
Just out of curiosity, how has he changed around the house?Just a quick update. The senior IT guy is away and Tylar is doing his job. So proud of him.
We bought a house and him and two mates rent it off us, scary, lol
Just a quick update. The senior IT guy is away and Tylar is doing his job. So proud of him.
Hey Copeland , how are things going with your son?
Thanks for your inquiry. The other job did work out but he got an IT-traineeship at Taffe now. In his first month he got employee of the month, lol. He gets jobs pretty easily, he interviews very well. He doesnt live in our rental property any more he lives in another house with different mates. Ive split with my wife and I own the rental now and live in it. I love living alone with my cat.Hey Copeland , how are things going with your son?
Thanks for your inquiry. The other job did work out but he got an IT-traineeship at Taffe now. In his first month he got employee of the month, lol. He gets jobs pretty easily, he interviews very well. He doesnt live in our rental property any more he lives in another house with different mates. Ive split with my wife and I own the rental now and live in it. I love living alone with my cat.