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My wife stays at home with our kids. Hasn't worked for 3 years. Personally, I feel lucky we can swing it. No angst or sexism involved. We did what works for us. Everybody should be able to without judgement.
As in plural.
As in both members of the relationship.
I think that's the bit that gets massively overlooked in this whole debate. If a women takes time off to raise a child, it's not as if she has to take a financial hit alone while her spouse continues to live a lavish lifestyle.
He's not gonna be eating caviar right in front of her while she has beans on toast. He's not gonna take business class flights while she sits in economy. You wear the hits together and enjoy the benefits together.

