Getting an Ex Back?

[janiek]

13 stitches

if you can, next time she contacts you ask her not to contact you for 3 months or you need to block her texts or something as you need a complete break

at the moment you are trying to make a decison whilst you're still emotionally torn up
you need to heal so you can make a rational decsion on whether you want to give her another chance
and the only way to heal is to have a complete break
- then if you choose; contact her meet for a face to face meeting & ask her to be honest - if she still has feelings for her ex or for whatever reason cannot commit to you 100% you need to let her go


edit: just saw nicky's reply above - fairly similar advice to mine

 

[13_Stitches]

i'll do exactly that. it's just still at the little runaway stage hoping for some hats off to larry action. but that kinda thing takes time.

mods can lock this if they want, thanks everyone for there help and advice. i'll update in a few months time if anyone is interested. cant beleive this thread has lasted this long

 

[H2F]

i'll do exactly that. it's just still at the little runaway stage hoping for some hats off to larry action. but that kinda thing takes time.

mods can lock this if they want, thanks everyone for there help and advice. i'll update in a few months time if anyone is interested. cant beleive this thread has lasted this long

 

[Gabbie]

Stitches,

You sound young (from where I'm sitting) and a nice young fella. I'm going to be a bit harsh but it's for your own good. Trust me. Been there done that.

Got to toughen up kiddo - kick the baitch to the kerb - not literally but tell her the PARTY IS OVER. You are not her doormat and tell her to hit the road and don't let the door slam her on the butt on the way out.

From your original post sounds like this girl is using you when she can't get another. You're her standby guy when no better offers coming her way. She's treating you like shite and a lap dog. Ignore those texts (it will be hard) but eventually she should give up.

Good luck.

 

[Aussiekate]

Stitches, sounds like you've done some thinking, sorted a few things out and Im personally optimistic about your future and present sanity. Keep your chin up and keep us posted!

 

[Suds_Mcduff]

Hey Stitches can we have an update on the goings on of your $lutty ex

 

[nicky]

Hey Stitches can we have an update on the goings on of your $lutty ex

We've put alot of work into you 13 stitches, please post an update.

 

[13_Stitches]

well, things are going well at the moment.

we're back together, but we're taking it steady and trying not to go back into this too full on. in saying that tho when we're together its as if the split didn't even happen, so it's pretty positive at the moment.

 

[Karl Pilkington]

well, things are going well at the moment.

we're back together, but we're taking it steady and trying not to go back into this too full on. in saying that tho when we're together its as if the split didn't even happen, so it's pretty positive at the moment.

Sucka

 

[Ant_]

^^^ Have to agree with Karl, you're going to learn the hard way.

 

[nicky]

well, things are going well at the moment.

we're back together, but we're taking it steady and trying not to go back into this too full on. in saying that tho when we're together its as if the split didn't even happen, so it's pretty positive at the moment.

translation, you see her on her terms which is fine when you're together but sucks when you're apart.

I've been there too and i know how much that sucks.

 

[Norfolk & Clew]

Had never come across this thread until today and have just finished reading it, wanna cry for you stitches! Mate this is going to come back and bite you hardcore! I went through the exact same thing back in November as a 22 year old and it was a 4 year relationship!

I see you are a Bendigo boy, Universal Saturday night i would love to try and talk some sense into you dude!

 

[dont bowl there]

BOOOOO cant believe you got back with her, what a terrible call.

 

[haywood jablome]

I know most cases are different but what are the odd's of getting your ex girlfriend back?

Me and my girl broke up about a month ago, everything was going perfect and we'd been together for just over a year untill the easter weekend when her ex boyfriend shows up. They spent some time together, which i didn't mind, but after that she went weird on me and it soon after ended. Since then i've seen and spoken to her a few times (despite moving 3 hours away and quitting my job) and she has be completely upfront with me. She has been seeing her ex but they're not together and she has been with 4 other guys as well as smoking alot of pot and drinking constantly, which is worrying because it's out of character. Not to mention that she got a tattoo soon after i left.

I still care about her and want to get back with her but i have no idea how to go about this. She messaged me 3 days ago saying she "misses me" but i dont want to read to much into that.

Has anyone else been through this and what are your experience / advice?

Move on stalker.

 

[footyfreak]

well, things are going well at the moment.

we're back together, but we're taking it steady and trying not to go back into this too full on. in saying that tho when we're together its as if the split didn't even happen, so it's pretty positive at the moment.

I'm going to have to backhand some bitches just to even up the unbalance this has created in the universe

 

[H2F]

I'm going to have to backhand some bitches just to even up the unbalance this has created in the universe

I went 18 months only having anal sex with girls to prove a point once.

I'm with you.

 

[footyfreak]

I went 18 months only having anal sex with girls to prove a point once.

I'm with you.

literally ROFLMAO

 

[H2F]

literally ROFLMAO

lol ... If I didn't find my GF I probably would have kept going... It's much better when you don't even pretend to please them ...

Funny thing is they seem more pleased than ever. Go figure

 

[TOA.]

I wish you all the best mate

but

this girl will brake your heart again and you will feel stupid aswell as heart broken.

 

[CrazyQ]

How long do both H2F and ff have to, bluntly, tell you to move away. The bitch is not going to change and is clearly heckin'g you around. It shits me that blokes dont stand up for themselves to ****s. Yep, ****s. You should not have gone to that lunch, big mistake. That was final proof that she knows she has you in her palms. I knwo you have feelings for her, understandable, but fcuk me, if a chick cheated on me or whatever, I'd get ultimate revenge, you just have too.

She is seeing her ex. That is a fact. Next opportunity you have to fcuk with her, do it. Literally and mentally. Invite her back to your house, make a beautiful dinner, flowers, dim lights maybe even some chocolate sauce. She will love it. Surprise her. Root her until she cums out of her ear, then get up, throw her clothes out the door and tell her to get the fcuk out of my life.

There are heaps of ****s out there for a root and heaps of chicks who you could pull.

Grow some balls mate, but while you do, fcuk her one time for the fellas who get pushed around.

PS: This reminds me of a experience once. I was going to a club with some mates and as we were lining up, I had a crack at this chick. Good body, average face, but hey a roots a root. So we start talking and she says she works here with her mates, one of them gave me a ruthless stare, so I said to her "What's your ******* problem?, she goes something along the lines of "Dont talk to me, you're not worth it, see that bin there? I bet that's where you are going to sleep tonight".

So I told her to fcuk off (Also called her a ****, she was wearing nothing, seriously). She then says she will call the bouncer and have me evicted.

I could feel the ultimate pwnage coming, so I said call him.

She did. She got fired.

Dumb bitch didnt know my mate's dad owned the club.

 

[nicky]

I went 18 months only having anal sex with girls to prove a point once.

I'm with you.

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

i'm laughing because that is hilarious but i don't think it's right.

 

[CrazyQ]

I swear too much.

 

[CrazyQ]

Ah ****, I didnt see you got back with her, man.

 

[nicky]

Ah ****, I didnt see you got back with her, man.

yes he did and things are going well when they're together.

Sorry 13stitches, i like you but you need to be teased and tormented until you learn your lesson, otherwise you will end up bitter and twisted like h2f and ff.





lub you really guys

 

[footyfreak]

Ah ****, I didnt see you got back with her, man.

LOLZER, but you are still 100% correct