Getting an Ex Back?

[footyfreak]

fair enough, but I'm thinking about whose pocket

hahahahahahahahahahaha

true dat

 

[CrazyQ]

The chick in question was a bitch, like I said.

Take that as in she didnt just piss me off.

 

[footyfreak]

The chick in question was a bitch, like I said.

Take that as in she didnt just piss me off.

what???

Oh yea, mate the story was GOLD!!! Deserved everything she got.

Would have loved to have seen the silly wench's face

nice work

 

[tandino]

I feel for you Stitches.

I am in a similar situation. My girlfriend dumped me last year, saying that she was not ready for a serious relationship, "It's not you, it's me", you all know the deal. Turns out she was doing the dirty behind my back, and went out with three different guys who treated her like shit. Now she's hassling me, wanting to go back to how things were, before she threw it away.

You made a decision, and I made a different one. I didn't go back for a number of reasons, For a start I don't forgive her for what she did, not to mention the fact that if I went back, she wouldn't recognise her mistakes and as such would probably do it to me again.

My advice would be not to go back, but you already have. In any case, if things turn to shit again, as they tend to do, don't get down about it. **** her off and move on. I got real down about my situation, and it really was a bitch because I felt all depressed and shit over a girl who couldn't give a **** about me. That in itself does not make logical sense, but there you go.

 

[footyfreak]

yea but at least you learnt dom.

kudos to you for making the hard decision and not letting the silly **** back in

 

[nicky]

I spent 65K defending unfair dismissal allegations in one year ... All my staff love our place but when you get pricks you can't get rid of it sucks.

What I do with them is sack them anyway and then give my lawyers a blank chequebook to make sure they get nothing. Not real smart but I don't give a shit.

And Nicky I wouldn't have sacked you if you had of shared.

it was the owner of the clubs, so thats why my manager didn't slap me.

 

[moses]

lol ... If I didn't find my GF I probably would have kept going... It's much better when you don't even pretend to please them ...

Funny thing is they seem more pleased than ever. Go figure

Is your real name Patrick Bateman by any chance ;-)

 

[nicky]

Is your real name Patrick Bateman by any chance ;-)

hahahahahaha yes i can see why you would think that, but he's the OPPOSITE to patrick bateman.

 

[iameviljez]

haha, i'll probably change my mind tommorow. it's driving me crazy and i honestly just dont give a fu*k anymore. just gunna start going out and seeing what i can get.

Can I just give you some advice of my own? I'm going through a tough breakup right now and the best advice I can give you (though you're in a different situation) is this;

That you need to be honest with yourself - it sounds as though you're more scared (or maybe wary is a better word) by the pain of leaving her and breaking up than you are excited by the idea of staying with her. Breaking up is a hard thing to do and I admire my ex for having the guts to do so when it hurt both of us.

It shouldn't be the way that you have it. Be honest with yourself.