Hoping to get some advice on breaking up, would be great to hear from the ladies who inhabit these boards.
So I'm with this lovely woman, similar age, etc. We've only just begun dating and have enjoyed some good times, and it seems she is totally smitten: texts, calls, plans, etc. Thing is, I am just not feeling it as much. On a scale of 1 to 10 in interest levels, mine would be a 5. I often think about other women I have interest in, as they do for me, even to the point where I hope they don't see us together in public. That's terrible.
Those that may have read my posts previously would know of my failure in recent times to find a regular companion, and how that contributed to a general lack of self-esteem. Well I've turned that around by not stressing and just being my confident, natural self. Seems to have worked.
Anyway, she's coming around today and by her texts it looks like we're in for a great time. I actually wanted to have "that talk" with her today but I don't know what to do.
My dilemma is this: Having had my heart ripped to shreds four years ago by who I thought was my eternal soulmate and only just coming good this past year or so, I have developed an aversion to rejecting those that have shown interest in me, those that I have no interest in. For example, for almost a year a woman from my work showed an enormous amount of interest and dropped hints galore; all I could do was nod, smile and pretend I didn't get her texts.
This current interest had had a bad time with her ex just two years ago, he having cheated on her, she forgives him, then she catches him doing it again. I just don't want to crush her in a similar fashion.
What can I do?
What do I do?
Could really do with some advice right now...
So I'm with this lovely woman, similar age, etc. We've only just begun dating and have enjoyed some good times, and it seems she is totally smitten: texts, calls, plans, etc. Thing is, I am just not feeling it as much. On a scale of 1 to 10 in interest levels, mine would be a 5. I often think about other women I have interest in, as they do for me, even to the point where I hope they don't see us together in public. That's terrible.
Those that may have read my posts previously would know of my failure in recent times to find a regular companion, and how that contributed to a general lack of self-esteem. Well I've turned that around by not stressing and just being my confident, natural self. Seems to have worked.
Anyway, she's coming around today and by her texts it looks like we're in for a great time. I actually wanted to have "that talk" with her today but I don't know what to do.
My dilemma is this: Having had my heart ripped to shreds four years ago by who I thought was my eternal soulmate and only just coming good this past year or so, I have developed an aversion to rejecting those that have shown interest in me, those that I have no interest in. For example, for almost a year a woman from my work showed an enormous amount of interest and dropped hints galore; all I could do was nod, smile and pretend I didn't get her texts.
This current interest had had a bad time with her ex just two years ago, he having cheated on her, she forgives him, then she catches him doing it again. I just don't want to crush her in a similar fashion.
What can I do?
What do I do?
Could really do with some advice right now...