I dig this guy BUT

[Docker_Brat]

Originally posted by sabre_ac
Well thankyou Mantis and Santos for hijacking this thread and almost ruining it with your constant flirting.
Wether you like it or not Santos their is a wealth of experience and potential for advice on this site.
If you have none to give out of limited experience doesnt mean everyone else cant help.

You're taking the mickey, surely?

 

[sabre_ac]

HA!
I never said I could give advice better than anyone else,I merely pointed out that this board might be a good source of information on ALL issues.
And shouldnt be written off by individuals that due to having no idea themselves find the need to bag the question.

 

[myee8]

Originally posted by goaldrush
Typical of Santos to hijack this thread. I didn't expect Mantis to do the same.

Sound familiar to you Suzi??

 

[myee8]

Babycakes, don't worry about the age. There is a perception of women not going out with younger guys, but to hell with that. If you say he is as nice as he is, i am sure the relationship will be good. I know heaps of older women that are hot! Sofia Vergara, or i Sofia Viagra as i prefer to call her, is o ne such person.

 

[Magpie Magician]

Originally posted by Renegade
Then you've also had three who wanted to divorce you?

3 divorces?????? Ahhh. That explains a lot

 

[Mooster7]

Babycakes......(damn, I felt 'funny' typing that)

Guys don't mind being stalked unless it's by a hag. Stalk him. Doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend. If he's a real man, he won't mind cheating on her with you. If that situation doesn't develop, at least you'll have taken this great guy to bed. You can move on from there.

I'm aware that this advice may seem harsh, but it's the truth. Any guy who denies the truth of the above paragraph is a sissy-boy.


Peace,

 

[harry_hawka]

Gold, Mooster.

 

[Docker_Brat]

There you go Sabre, Mooster has answered your call.

 

[babycakes]

Originally posted by Mooster7
Babycakes......(damn, I felt 'funny' typing that)

Guys don't mind being stalked unless it's by a hag. Stalk him. Doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend. If he's a real man, he won't mind cheating on her with you. If that situation doesn't develop, at least you'll have taken this great guy to bed. You can move on from there.

I'm aware that this advice may seem harsh, but it's the truth. Any guy who denies the truth of the above paragraph is a sissy-boy.


Peace,

Yeah thanks Don't hold back, well i guess I should say thanks Anyway I hope hes not a sissy boy. And why did it feel funny typing Babycakes? You know its a word from one of Magic Dirt's( rockin aussie band) great songs .

 

[minuteman775]

I agree with the first reply, take a breath, these situations are never as serious as we think. You'll never know how someone feels or thinks - about anything - until they tell you, and that means talking to them.

If you feel this way about him, your going to lose if you don't talk to him, but there's only a 50/50 chance you'll lose if you try. And even in the worst case scenario, you just cut your losses and move on.

It's never easy feeling vulnerable, but there's a lot you can do before being vulnerable becames being dangerous. The only way the situation will ever change is with your choice, so i guess my advice is - choose.

 

[minuteman775]

Originally posted by Mooster7
Babycakes......(damn, I felt 'funny' typing that)

Guys don't mind being stalked unless it's by a hag. Stalk him. Doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend. If he's a real man, he won't mind cheating on her with you. If that situation doesn't develop, at least you'll have taken this great guy to bed. You can move on from there.

I'm aware that this advice may seem harsh, but it's the truth. Any guy who denies the truth of the above paragraph is a sissy-boy.


Peace,

Wake up you fool, no offence, but i'd bet a million you'll end up a hopeless old man. Your advice is so sad.

 

[blurton]

Originally posted by minuteman775
Wake up you fool, no offence, but i'd bet a million you'll end up a hopeless old man. Your advice is so sad.

You're new around these parts, aint you stranger?

 

[pazza]

Babycakes,

Don't worry about the age thing..if it's meant to happen, it will..if it's not meant to happen so be it.

Just enjoy yourself

Take it from me, there is nothing wrong with being older than the person that you love etc...just as long as it is within reason.

 

[Dimi]

Re: Re: I dig this guy BUT

Originally posted by goaldrush
Go to the hawthorn website and ask Adrian Cox. He might have some great advice for ya.

*he,he,he,he,he,he* yeah, ask Nutter.... would love to see his advice - he's a p*ssa!

 

[Santos L Helper]

Originally posted by minuteman775
Wake up you fool, no offence, but i'd bet a million you'll end up a hopeless old man. Your advice is so sad.

"Wake up fool NO OFFENCE"...etc blah blah. Show some conviction junior and let the old bastard have it. Stop hedging your bets and being soft.
Advice from the gifted of Tasmania...I hope you're taking notice Mooster.

 

[Katthawk]

Originally posted by Santos L Helper
"Wake up fool NO OFFENCE"...etc blah blah. Show some conviction junior and let the old bastard have it. Stop hedging your bets and being soft.
Advice from the gifted of Tasmania...I hope you're taking notice Mooster.

As opposed to the wisdom from South Australia. sniper extraordinaire.

 

[Yianni]

Originally posted by Mooster7
Guys don't mind being stalked unless it's by a hag. Stalk him. Doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend. If he's a real man, he won't mind cheating on her with you. If that situation doesn't develop, at least you'll have taken this great guy to bed. You can move on from there.

Wow Mooster, you seem to know a lot about male behaviour. Don't worry about Minuteman(bad name by the way, either interpretation doesn't paint you in the best light), he's one of our number who doesn't subscribe to what we know as "reality"..

Babycakes, Mooster's advice is about right if he's like 90% of guys...

 

[minuteman775]

Just wanted to apologize for calling whoever it was a fool, that was a little foolish, LOL. If i could i'd make amenze, but i guess sorry will have to do in this case.

I think its a pitty relationships get so little respect/care from the 90% of guys mentioned, and i'm glad to be amoung the 10% (if infact the percentage is so small).

My only advice in light of that 90% is: Take advice from a guy like that and you'll end up with a guy like that, and if you care anything for trust, it wouldn't be a nice place to be.

 

[TheMase]

Originally posted by minuteman775

I think its a pitty relationships get so little respect/care from the 90% of guys mentioned, and i'm glad to be amoung the 10% (if infact the percentage is so small).

My only advice in light of that 90% is: Take advice from a guy like that and you'll end up with a guy like that, and if you care anything for trust, it wouldn't be a nice place to be.

I would say it would be closer to 5%.

And I agree with you.

 

[JackHitlerOatey]

Originally posted by TheMase
I would say it would be closer to 5%.

And I agree with you.

Aren't they so idealistic at that age?

Words like 'faithfulness', 'commitment' and saying you like a girl for her personality and want to treat her right.. another 10 years of women like your last girlfriend and you will be thinking along the same lines as Mooster.

Don't think it'll happen eh?

 

[Mr Q]

Originally posted by minuteman775
Wake up you fool, no offence, but i'd bet a million you'll end up a hopeless old man. Your advice is so sad.

Hmmm, I think minuteman needs a bit more exposure to the world of the Mooster.

 

[Santos L Helper]

Originally posted by minuteman775
Just wanted to apologize for calling whoever it was a fool, that was a little foolish, LOL. If i could i'd make amenze, but i guess sorry will have to do in this case.

I think its a pitty relationships get so little respect/care from the 90% of guys mentioned, and i'm glad to be amoung the 10% (if infact the percentage is so small).

My only advice in light of that 90% is: Take advice from a guy like that and you'll end up with a guy like that, and if you care anything for trust, it wouldn't be a nice place to be.

Even if you're not among the majority of us who can spell and use punctuation.

 

[lioness]

Babycakes........just jump right in, and I know this might sound drastic, but just TALK TO HIM. Best way to put your mind at ease AND most likely get more info on him.

By the way, how old are you? Age differences are nothing, my new man is a year younger than me which is nothing dramatic.

Good luck!

 

[TheMase]

Originally posted by JackHitlerOatey
Aren't they so idealistic at that age?

Words like 'faithfulness', 'commitment' and saying you like a girl for her personality and want to treat her right.. another 10 years of women like your last girlfriend and you will be thinking along the same lines as Mooster.

Don't think it'll happen eh?

Nah I don't think it will happen

 

[babycakes]

Originally posted by lioness22
Babycakes........just jump right in, and I know this might sound drastic, but just TALK TO HIM. Best way to put your mind at ease AND most likely get more info on him.

By the way, how old are you? Age differences are nothing, my new man is a year younger than me which is nothing dramatic.

Good luck!

Thanks for the advice but i think i have blown it.
Without going to much into detail I took another approach kinda the loser approach you might say I sent a letter to his home address saying I work at your place too come say Hi he either didn't get the letter or he has chosen to be very rude and ignore me because on friday he was in the vicinity of me in fact he could not of not seen me and I was talking quietly to some chic about some work and he totally ignored me and walked out of the building to his place where he works. Never saw him the whole day after that. Don't think my approach was real good, I dunno I work in such a busy place and everyone can hear everything you say wherever you may be in the complex.

I just thought this was more discreet, it was more of a diasaster too bloody stupid is what I'd call it. oh well can't help bad luck. I guess just taking the the other approach is out now too. What a fool I have made of myself.I think I misjudged him too, hes probably thinking hey I'm hot some loser chick digs me thats what makes me even more angrierWhats it take to say HI to someone? Not even 1 second. Life sucks.