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Originally posted by Pedro
Odds are, every time you get rejected, you're one step closer to your next score. Work on the theory that if you ask enough of them, eventually one will have to say yes

Ah but somehow they'll find out that you asked all of them and you'll be shot to hell. You have to deal with only one at a time or at least hope that they think they are the only one.

I hate being a second choice. Grrrrrr!!! Woe betide anyone if I find out I am just a standby. :mad:
 
Naturally, experience from always saying no to losers like you & the answer is still no, now stop stalking me, it ain't going to happen, EVER. :rolleyes:
 
Originally posted by mantis
Don't bet on it. :D

Bit like "the doggies will have to win one sooner or later" theory then, eh? Good in theory, but...
 

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Originally posted by Katthawk

I hate being a second choice. Grrrrrr!!! Woe betide anyone if I find out I am just a standby. :mad:

I never said i ask in order of preference. More in order of proximity.
 
Originally posted by Katthawk
Shhh don't let the bag outta the cat. :cool:

For me the fun lasts about five minutes.

Then you realise that it's cruel to lead on a fat-ass denim-skirt wearing cruiser-sipping teen with a glow stick in her mouth...and sit back down feeling guilty.

How come girls have no shame when it comes to leading on and flirting?
 
Originally posted by evertonfc
For me the fun lasts about five minutes.

Then you realise that it's cruel to lead on a fat-ass denim-skirt wearing cruiser-sipping teen with a glow stick in her mouth...and sit back down feeling guilty.

How come girls have no shame when it comes to leading on and flirting?

I was going to bed. But why do I bother defending the indefensible?

I am incorrigible. or horrible. I can't defend those whom I have no knowledge of.

Ask me another question.
 
Originally posted by Katthawk
I was going to bed. But why do I bother defending the indefensible?

I am incorrigible. or horrible. I can't defend those whom I have no knowledge of.

Ask me another question.

Will LA Gear shoes with flashing lights ever come back into fashion?

How cool were you if you were the kid who strolled into the playground with those on...

"Oh wow!"

"I bet they're fake!"

"What a show off"

Pffft. I had to wear Aerosport with velcro-strap laces :(
 

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I got myself in strife on the weekend, said all this really nice soppy stuff to a female friend in a bold attempt to get some action - didn't work - now this week it appears she has changed her mind whilst I have sobered up. D'oh!
 
Originally posted by mantis
Naturally, experience from always saying no to losers like you & the answer is still no, now stop stalking me, it ain't going to happen, EVER. :rolleyes:

Yep, sounds like they're banging down your door. :rolleyes:
 
Originally posted by Lockyer24
I got myself in strife on the weekend, said all this really nice soppy stuff to a female friend in a bold attempt to get some action - didn't work - now this week it appears she has changed her mind whilst I have sobered up. D'oh!

Is she still as beautiful now your sober?
 
Originally posted by Katthawk
Babycakes, sounds like more info is needed for more valid opinions to be put out.

Sabre, seriously, have you a question you would like to ask? I am sure we'd all love to help you out.

What do youse wanna know all the horribel stuff I went through to get him to even talk to me how ****ing hard and terrible it was to be rejected. I tell you what I'm never doing it again never ever and I don't condone other women to do it either. It hurts bad and its pretty demoralsing the world is bad enough without going through this. I don't wanna bitch about it thas why I gave no backround. Go to a thread called I DIG THIS GUY if you can find it.... its a few weeks back now I posted actually probably early june.

All i can say is games are for losers and iwas toatlly upfront with him never played any games and he knew I liked him he was waiting for me to make a fool of myself.... just waiting. My confidence is shattered and I actually do not believe I will ask another guy again out EVER if he ain't making the moves it just won't happen.
I seriously misjudged and I'm paying big time. Life really is horrible hey you only have yourself and thats sometimes not enough either. Laugh if you will but it took a lot of courage to ask him nerves of steel I'm spontaneous though so I dunno it was a split secong thing i now wish I had never done.
 

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That sucks Babycakes. If he didn't want to get involved with you that's fair enough, but to have led you on and anticipated you doing that isn't too good at all.
Oh well, the guy was probably a dud anyway. Chin up Babycakes and keep smiling, there are some decent blokes out there and hopefully it will work out OK for you.
 
been there, done it and got the t-shirt

when I was 16 I asked out a guy that I'd liked since I was 13 and my response was "I'll think about it and let you know..."

a day passed, then a week, then a month....it was pretty shattering. I would have much rather have gotten a flat out no than a maybe. Took me awhile to get over it but in hindsight it was a blessing, it would have never gone anywhere. I still had a crush on the guy he was when he was 12, and not the poobumhead (because that's about the strongest word you can use on Bigfooty) that he became when he was 16 and he's ego had been inflated to the size of Kim Beasley's gut.

Success is the sweetest revenge...what you're going through is a hiccup but its definately not the end of the world! Just the beginning of a very steep learning curve that you'll go through as you get older.
 
Originally posted by babycakes
Yah I asked this dude out and he rejected me. And i guess you are thinking so what but I'm upset. I'd like to hear rejection storys funny hilarious sad tragic anything. So I can find some kind of level head right now.

Give us a look @ ur pic :)
 

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