Rumour Jon Patton

[Wosh]

Just a reminder not to cross the line, BF does have rules we all abide by regarding mental health issues and unacceptable comments and jokes. Feel free to discuss any topic reasonably but please think before you post.
And please stick to the topic only.
Thanks.

 

[Hawks93]

Let's just say I can't put the other screenshots up on BigFooty.
He's a dirtbag.

PM if you can

 

[Malifice]

If Patton went public with the unsolicited images and requests he and most other players got from numerous girls, would it be the same situation playing out?

It's not really the same thing though is it?

It's kind of like when White people complain they're being racially abused by Black people and try and draw some kind of equivalence, completely ignoring the context of entrenched socioeconomic disadvantage, colonialism, slavery, land dispossession, stolen generations and so forth. Being called a 'White bastard' by a black dude doesnt have the same kind of connotations, context or threat attached to it as when you call an Aboriginal person a C--n or an African person an N-word.

That said, we're talking about an unsolicited dick pick here. People calling for him to lose his job over it need to pour themselves a glass of concrete, drink it, and harden the **** up.

It's not great, but it's not like he shot someone FFS. The recipient was probably a bit offended, and maybe even grossed out, but its not like she's going to lose much sleep over it.

 

[nexium]

Let's just say I can't put the other screenshots up on BigFooty.
He's a dirtbag.

Can you DM to me please.

 

[gingernuts]

It Is very difficult to get a bed for mental health In the public system. HFC medics may be able top pull strings to make it happen but it would not be a rubber stamp just because they wanted him admitted.

This is 100% true, When i needed to go into a facility rehab beds were at a premium and hard to come by in Regional Vic

 

[JackGraham]

 

[HeHateMe]

It's not really the same thing though is it?

It's kind of like when White people complain they're being racially abused by Black people and try and draw some kind of equivalence, completely ignoring the context of entrenched socioeconomic disadvantage, colonialism, slavery, land dispossession, stolen generations and so forth. Being called a 'White bastard' by a black dude doesnt have the same kind of connotations, context or threat attached to it as when you call an Aboriginal person a C--n or an African person an N-word.

That said, we're talking about an unsolicited dick pick here. People calling for him to lose his job over it need to pour themselves a glass of concrete, drink it, and harden the fu** up.

It's not great, but it's not like he shot someone FFS. The recipient was probably a bit offended, and maybe even grossed out, but its not like she's going to lose much sleep over it.

Spot on.

Im Interested how my club handles this one we are the "family club" and families look out for one another. Patton is going through possible the toughest patch of his life but at the same time it's becoming more and more clear he was likely in the wrong. If he is ready to admit his behaviour was wrong and put his hand up and seek help I'd support the club getting behind him while he gets the help he needs.

But still plenty to play out as the only thing I've heard publicly from the Patton camp is he has denied any wrongdoing so that's quite a bit apart from the accusations.

 

[Woody Woodman]

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Why is there a Dick pic at the top right of this card?

 

[LordLucifer]

You’re claiming he’s unhinged, so make up your mind, does he have mental health issues or not??

'Unhinged' to me is someone who keeps doing stupid shit because they think its funny regardless of whether it affects anyone else, not having a full-blown mental illness.

 

[gordo2016]

Are we sure he is in hospital for mental health and not for surgery to his wrist?

It would be fair to say, Patton hasn't been "master of his domain."

 

[edgie]

There's a lot more sympathy for Patton here, who has abused multiple women for not wanting to see his weiner, than there was for Gary Lyon, who had a consensual relation with a single women, that then followed it up with some mental health time out.

Why is that?

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[Lavender Bushranger]

Spot on.

Im Interested how my club handles this one we are the "family club" and families look out for one another. Patton is going through possible the toughest patch of his life but at the same time it's becoming more and more clear he was likely in the wrong. If he is ready to admit his behaviour was wrong and put his hand up and seek help I'd support the club getting behind him while he gets the help he needs.

But still plenty to play out as the only thing I've heard publicly from the Patton camp is he has denied any wrongdoing so that's quite a bit apart from the accusations.

Dude.

Please.

I don't know anyone. But....I personnally know of 3 guys from Hawthorn that make Patton look like Ricky Schroeder.

Family club? Come on man. That's marketing guff.

 

[BlueTang]

It's not really the same thing though is it?

It's kind of like when White people complain they're being racially abused by Black people and try and draw some kind of equivalence, completely ignoring the context of entrenched socioeconomic disadvantage, colonialism, slavery, land dispossession, stolen generations and so forth. Being called a 'White bastard' by a black dude doesnt have the same kind of connotations, context or threat attached to it as when you call an Aboriginal person a C--n or an African person an N-word.

That said, we're talking about an unsolicited dick pick here. People calling for him to lose his job over it need to pour themselves a glass of concrete, drink it, and harden the fu** up.

It's not great, but it's not like he shot someone FFS. The recipient was probably a bit offended, and maybe even grossed out, but its not like she's going to lose much sleep over it.

It’s a lot more than a dick pick, wait for more of the stories I am hearing to come out.
Has the ice cream cake story made it to the thread yet?

 

[spenze]

There's a lot more sympathy for Patton here, who has abused multiple women for not wanting to see his weiner, than there was for Gary Lyon, who had a consensual relation with a single women, that then followed it up with some mental health time out.

Why is that?

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To be fair, they are relationships both formed on the basis of not caring what the other person thinks or feels. Gary had a strong friendship with his good mate and didn't care, Jono had no friendship and didn't care.

I mean, in my mind Johnno is worse, it is unsolicited shenanigans bordering on sexual pervasion.

Still, in saying that, after the affair, Billy Brownless did send a text to Lyon asking how a used pussy felt like and Lyon replied that after going past the first two inches, it was basically virgin territory

 

[Maurice Mitchell]

It isn't. But I'm not going to sit here and moralise about it. I've done dumb sh*t too.

And when I ****ed up, I didn't have the Melbourne media talking about it.

If you were someone of interest they would have. They are in the business of attracting readers.

 

[edgie]

Who hear has abused any woman who knocked them back?

Who here is or was an entitled misogynist?

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[RUNVS]

Who hear has abused any woman who knocked them back?

Who here is or was an entitled misogynist?

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[javaguice]

By the looks of it, this thread uniting a few others that have copped it.... more to come.

Well done bigfooty. Sounds like he is a right dickhead

And yeah, poll please. Although its pretty obvious which posters have sent the odd message here or there..... I'd love to know the stats on this

 

[2006_Eagles]

Who hear has abused any woman who knocked them back?

Who here is or was an entitled misogynist?

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I punched every last one of them

 

[2006_Eagles]

I cant believe you had to ask lol...

And girl number 100 suggested they both celebrate the milestone with cake right? I mean, that's a pretty big accolade for her yeah?

I can't believe I had to ask lol

 

[2006_Eagles]

Well, it's often because they have an illness impairing their decision making.

Similar to how you arrived at your username?

 

[Shell]

Do they?

Don't all criminals get released into the community at some point? How many re-offend?

I don't know the answers by the way. It's not a topic I know much about, or care much about. Just trying to understand your point.




On face value there is.

But there's also a difference between just a 'dick pic' - and indencent exposure, and sexual harassment. There's even a big difference between sending your missus a dick pic, versus sending one randomly to a stranger who didn't want it.

And there's also a difference between African kids doing regrettable stuff that they will be ashamed of when they're adults - and home invasions and car jackings!



Is it moral outrage? Or is it actually just people expressing their views on public forums (which are literally designed for people to express their views on)? There is a difference between supposed moral outrage, and people actually disagreeing with or not liking something. It's not always a moral thing.

The Herald-Sun's entire business model is about stirring up emotive responses from their readers, and demanding that people be outraged. I don't know why you think it's being led by anyone other than the media.

They've successfully outraged you, by telling you how outraged everyone else is. In reality, I'd bet that you're more outraged about the outrage, than those that are outraged actually are!


The amount of times I read headlines that talk about people being outraged about something, only to read the article and find that in fact very few people, if any, are actually outraged about it, is hilarious.

Cheers mate I now have a headache reading that post


outrage.

 

[Shell]

There's a lot more sympathy for Patton here, who has abused multiple women for not wanting to see his weiner, than there was for Gary Lyon, who had a consensual relation with a single women, that then followed it up with some mental health time out.

Why is that?

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Omfg. Dont even get me started on Garry Lyon... ill be ranting all day.

The way he was treated in the media, and general public (and Nicky) was a disgrace. And sif Billy was ever a flipping angel.
/anyway- end of the day- only 4 people know what really went on there. And that's the two couples, end of.

 

[Shell]

I punched every last one of them

Hmmm really? I preferred having my **** squeezed hard and being told to get a bigger set of them, myself.



/FWIW- ive been turned down by men. It happens to us too. Build a bridge and get the **** over it.

 

[2006_Eagles]

Hmmm really? I preferred having my **** squeezed hard and being told to get a bigger set of them, myself.



/FWIW- ive been turned down by men. It happens to us too. Build a bridge and get the fu** over it.

I was clearly joking Shell, calm down

I've never been turned down by a girl, ever.

Jokes on you

 

[Shell]

I was clearly joking Shell, calm down

I've never been turned down by a girl, ever.

Jokes on you

I bet all the chicks send you unsolicited vag pics.


Amirite or amirite?