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I am sorry friend, for your pains too. The unbolded stuff above from would also be bolded stuff for me.....in terms of wanting disconnection, wanting to just not wake up, willing your subconscious mind to die when you go to sleep so you don't have to wake up. And the more you talk about it, even the internal discourse within yourself is still talking about it, makes it worse......i guess what that guy told me is right.....it's always there, just don't pay it so much mind. Therefore, TRY...find something that works for us, be it distractions, nightly routines of nice smelling/feeling sensations, focusing on a hobby/interest, investing thought into a TV show, keeping yourself busy with work related tasks, etc. Even just to allow our mind to REST from all the negative self-geared thinking, rest from the depressive thoughts that are always there hungry to be petted and fed. Pet and feed other thoughts and topics in our mind, even just to allow it to rest.
Like....the world, all the news and wars/stories going on, one can invest a lot of time thinking about it all and it makes you depressed about life and the world. So, either drive yourself crazy and how you cannot change any of it. Or, ignorance is bliss. Focusing instead on tv shows that make you laugh or are silly. Turning the channel, disconnecting and unplugging from the News cycle.
You're right that we can not unsee or control what we have experienced externally.Thanks for all the responses so far. Yes, especially yours too The Lemon
CBT is not only tricky to do, but is also a trick.
That's kind of my problem, the seen thing that cannot be unseen, and that it's always there, and that "you don't have to pay it so much mind" every minute of every day....driving yourself crazy or into a rage. That's what I struggle with....letting go of a thought, or thoughts, especially anything that is Truth. I've always been a bloodhound for truth...discarding like smelly trash anything that isn't true, that is petty. So now....years later....when the s**t hits the fan in regards to life....and truth is all around and inside you.....and truth is always only negative geared, exposing the falsehoods....then my mind is overwhelmed by negatives (truths), drowning in them, having stripped my mind bare of any delusional safeguards, discarded the usefulness of distractions. I did this to myself.
Any recipes for a home brew to go to sleep and have a pain free death in bed?
Mate call lifeline xmake with the damn recipe already
Mate call lifeline x
The human brain is both our greatest asset and greatest enemy.
GG, keep your head up dude. I know it's a base and incredibly non-analytical response to a very deep and thought provoking tome. Sometimes we just have to detach ourselves from the idea that there's a greater purpose behind it all, I reckon.
What I mean is, the search for that greater purpose can drive one crazy if you focus on it too much, I think. Especially if you can't find an answer that makes sense or sates you.Thought the attachment to a great purpose would be more of a saviour than it would be to detach?