You realise there is a difference between getting along superficially and actually having friends right? He might get along with them at training ok but barely sees them outside football.
I don't know Scharenburg at all but your showing your ignorance of different personalities. Just because you make friends easily doesn't mean everyone does.
If Scharenberg can't find a bit of a friendship with a least one or two of the 50 or so blokes on our list, is there a suggestion of some deviance in his behaviour, or a treatable mental health issue? You expect the first 10 new draftees will match up to the rigours of AFL football, both physically and emotionally. You'd also hope that passion is another arrow the good ones would add early to their quiver.
Has a wedge been driven between him and the entire playing list? If so why? What formed the wedge? The lack of friends, no teammates in deserted locker rooms willing to soak up the story of his life, or mates at barbies prepared to swap boyish banter and secretive ribaldry while their wives and partners cluster like cowered penguins in a corner.
Why hasn't Scharenberg found a kindred spirit or mentor? And there any health issues impacting his relationships and his personal worth? Is he just not a nice sort of bloke?
So many questions to be asked, but so few answers to be found. It won't be that long before the present catches up with the future, and we'll know if he's off to SA.