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lots of athletes/footballers coming down with mental illness of late - everyone is quick to judge and doubt... oh but they are rich, why be unhappy?
Australian people are a big bunch of faux grandstanders IMO.
They love getting on their moral high ground and standing up for causes that make them look good, they love saying #metoo, or #putyourbatout - or #ruok, they love a pink ribbon, or a red nose, or a moustache...or whatever else makes them sleep well at night.
its all BS - its like a charity standing order, they don't care, its a transaction without care - its about optics.
when someone really needs their help are they really there? or does the moral outrage take precedence.
Bernard Tomic - a person that has spawned more opinion pieces than maybe he deserves, but all for the wrong reason.
Here we have a guy, who has admitted he is depressed, and needs help.
does anyone offer help? no. They chastise him, call him a quitter, call him a squib, here now is the issue - the stigma remains, if you don't man up and stick it through, you are a coward. This is why men die from suicide, ...people can go on about how its ok to say you are struggling.. but look, is it? or is it just a show for the camera..
some of those arseholes on social media disgusted me.. boneheads like Dane Swan - and you get thousands of bonehead seals clapping at him like braindead zombies seals.. yeh right on dane, you tell him!!
Worst part is these people are in the majority. A bunch of people, a society who would rather get a laugh or harvest likes, than care for fellow humans.
OK I get it, Tomic may have polarized people - but what does he owe anyone?
Big deal, he happened to be good at a sport, again, what does he owe anyone? why does that somehow give anyone the right to expect him to excel at it that's not his desire?
People say he hasn't realized his talent.
Rubbish, he has got closer to realizing his talent and dreams than the bulk of society sitting in their cubicle for 40 years wishing for better..he tried and got closer than you.
But cleary there is more to this tale - I believe boomers, and even the generation under see Tomic as every millennial, a bunch of whinging, snot nosed entitled kids who cant see anything through, who cant handle adversary, who wont work hard and need a safe space for their emotions.
They believe they did it so hard in their early lives and came out the other side superior mental beings.
Let me ask you this, what normal teenager dosent get a little lost? Say stupid things? make a few wrong turns?
He has just happened to do it in the public eye.
You have this guy, who didn't have a dad, he had a boss, a coach - who drove him from age 7 til 'adulthood' with a single minded goal - to be good at tennis, nothing else, not be a good person, not care for others, not build a base of intelligence, or empathy or anything else. just. be. good. at. tennis.
Now he has been set free in the adult world, and he seems listless and lost, with the mind of a child - and nobody wants to help, they just want to chastice and throw barbs
I get it, the counting millons thing grates everyone, me included, and the squibbing isn't a traditionally aussie thing to do as an athlete on the world stage - but clearly they were both defence mechanisms for a troubled mind, a troubled soul. He still has that arrogant athletes mentality, very hard to back down and admit your flaws you when have been built up from age 7 as being better than most at something.
Anyway, people say oh he just went in the jungle for the money, rubbish.
I reckon he genuinely believed this could help him 'find himself' that silly cliché. I think its not a conceited attempt to find fame or money, I think he thought he might actually come out a better person, maybe challenge a few demons.
Maybe now he releases fixing decades of mental illness isn't as easy as sitting in a jungle for a month - it takes more hard professional work. The penny might have dropped....not for the tennis, for actually getting help
He said himself it was the first time his life has slowed down since he was a child, without training, tv, friends, a phone and he immediately got scared and depressed...
this is a good thing, you need to stop and hear those things once in a while, listen to your inner self.
running away from it wont help, have to knock it on the head.
I just hope he dosent come out and go headlong into training, sure, it might chase away the demons for a while but its still only temporary.
The wound is open now, get yourself some help before you get back to sport.
anyway, I went on a bit...
I just hope people, rank and file, keyboard warriors put their morals where their mouths are... ruok, isn't just a hashtag... its not just a day a year for you to make yourself feel better.
A bloke just reached out and everyone laughed and called him a squib. not cool.
Australian people are a big bunch of faux grandstanders IMO.
They love getting on their moral high ground and standing up for causes that make them look good, they love saying #metoo, or #putyourbatout - or #ruok, they love a pink ribbon, or a red nose, or a moustache...or whatever else makes them sleep well at night.
its all BS - its like a charity standing order, they don't care, its a transaction without care - its about optics.
when someone really needs their help are they really there? or does the moral outrage take precedence.
Bernard Tomic - a person that has spawned more opinion pieces than maybe he deserves, but all for the wrong reason.
Here we have a guy, who has admitted he is depressed, and needs help.
does anyone offer help? no. They chastise him, call him a quitter, call him a squib, here now is the issue - the stigma remains, if you don't man up and stick it through, you are a coward. This is why men die from suicide, ...people can go on about how its ok to say you are struggling.. but look, is it? or is it just a show for the camera..
some of those arseholes on social media disgusted me.. boneheads like Dane Swan - and you get thousands of bonehead seals clapping at him like braindead zombies seals.. yeh right on dane, you tell him!!
Worst part is these people are in the majority. A bunch of people, a society who would rather get a laugh or harvest likes, than care for fellow humans.
OK I get it, Tomic may have polarized people - but what does he owe anyone?
Big deal, he happened to be good at a sport, again, what does he owe anyone? why does that somehow give anyone the right to expect him to excel at it that's not his desire?
People say he hasn't realized his talent.
Rubbish, he has got closer to realizing his talent and dreams than the bulk of society sitting in their cubicle for 40 years wishing for better..he tried and got closer than you.
But cleary there is more to this tale - I believe boomers, and even the generation under see Tomic as every millennial, a bunch of whinging, snot nosed entitled kids who cant see anything through, who cant handle adversary, who wont work hard and need a safe space for their emotions.
They believe they did it so hard in their early lives and came out the other side superior mental beings.
Let me ask you this, what normal teenager dosent get a little lost? Say stupid things? make a few wrong turns?
He has just happened to do it in the public eye.
You have this guy, who didn't have a dad, he had a boss, a coach - who drove him from age 7 til 'adulthood' with a single minded goal - to be good at tennis, nothing else, not be a good person, not care for others, not build a base of intelligence, or empathy or anything else. just. be. good. at. tennis.
Now he has been set free in the adult world, and he seems listless and lost, with the mind of a child - and nobody wants to help, they just want to chastice and throw barbs
I get it, the counting millons thing grates everyone, me included, and the squibbing isn't a traditionally aussie thing to do as an athlete on the world stage - but clearly they were both defence mechanisms for a troubled mind, a troubled soul. He still has that arrogant athletes mentality, very hard to back down and admit your flaws you when have been built up from age 7 as being better than most at something.
Anyway, people say oh he just went in the jungle for the money, rubbish.
I reckon he genuinely believed this could help him 'find himself' that silly cliché. I think its not a conceited attempt to find fame or money, I think he thought he might actually come out a better person, maybe challenge a few demons.
Maybe now he releases fixing decades of mental illness isn't as easy as sitting in a jungle for a month - it takes more hard professional work. The penny might have dropped....not for the tennis, for actually getting help
He said himself it was the first time his life has slowed down since he was a child, without training, tv, friends, a phone and he immediately got scared and depressed...
this is a good thing, you need to stop and hear those things once in a while, listen to your inner self.
running away from it wont help, have to knock it on the head.
I just hope he dosent come out and go headlong into training, sure, it might chase away the demons for a while but its still only temporary.
The wound is open now, get yourself some help before you get back to sport.
anyway, I went on a bit...
I just hope people, rank and file, keyboard warriors put their morals where their mouths are... ruok, isn't just a hashtag... its not just a day a year for you to make yourself feel better.
A bloke just reached out and everyone laughed and called him a squib. not cool.