Narcissism

[raskolnikov]

Anyone else like me have a narcissist in their life and any tips on how to deal with them? A friend who knows the situation has been sending me these which perfectly describe what I'm going through.

 

[Kurve]

Anyone else like me have a narcissist in their life and any tips on how to deal with them? A friend who knows the situation has been sending me these which perfectly describe what I'm going through.

If you call them out, you can expect big trouble and often it will come in the form of a vicious smear campaign. When you identify you're dealing with a narcissist, particularly the malignant kind best to run but if you can't try the 'grey rock'.

Grey rocking is a practice where an individual becomes emotionally non-responsive, boring, and virtually acts like a rock. Emotional detachment serves to undermine a narcissist's attempts to lure and manipulate, causing them to grow uninterested and bored.

 

[iluvparis]

Have you tried just standing still?

Wait...maybe that's for T-rex's

 

[craigos]

If you call them out, you can expect big trouble and often it will come in the form of a vicious smear campaign. When you identify you're dealing with a narcissist, particularly the malignant kind best to run but if you can't try the 'grey rock'.

Grey rocking is a practice where an individual becomes emotionally non-responsive, boring, and virtually acts like a rock. Emotional detachment serves to undermine a narcissist's attempts to lure and manipulate, causing them to grow uninterested and bored.

What happens if Rasko's normal personality is that of a rock?

 

[Hawk Dork]

My wife and I are grey rocking and ghosting and hermiting like nobodies business

 

[Kurve]

My wife and I are grey rocking and ghosting and hermiting like nobodies business

I've been doing grey rock for a couple of years now, it works with people where going no contact isn't an option.

 

[Ok Boomer]

Toss some marbles or a banana peel in front of them while they are strutting around the office or the house.

 

[M Malice]

Anyone else like me have a narcissist in their life and any tips on how to deal with them? A friend who knows the situation has been sending me these which perfectly describe what I'm going through.
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While I was reading those memes I was thinking.... this describes politicians.

 

[Perth gal]

My Mum is one. I’ve cut all contact as a couple of months ago. Bit tricky as my son still sees her. I just have to hope for the best. After a lifetime of dealing with her crap it’s time to move on.

 

[raskolnikov]

While I was reading those memes I was thinking.... this describes politicians.

Definitely describes Trump. And Trump and the narcissist I know have lots in common. Refusing to admit mistakes, always someone else's fault' and resort to slander and lies when things aren't going their way.

 

[raskolnikov]

I sent a message a few days ago asking this guy for the keys to my house back as I gave him a set when he looked after my house a few years ago. I said I didn't feel comfortable with him having a set anymore. He has ignored it. SMH.

 

[norway blue]

Rekey. Play it safe .


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[Gough]

We're all narcissists to degree, you need to be to survive. It's just the freaks that give us normies a bad name.

 

[HairyO]

Sometimes its not narcissism. The other person just doesnt want to deal with your shit.

 

[raskolnikov]

Sometimes its not narcissism. The other person just doesnt want to deal with your sh*t.

That so isn't the case in this situation.

 

[Shell]

No.


Thats about all I can contribute to this topic.

 

[NaturalDisaster]

Haven’t had to deal with one closely, but Pretty sure I met a narcissist at a mates birthday party one year, Dude seemed like a lovely guy at first, easy to talk to. Saw him again a few other times until i realise almost all he did was talk about himself and humble brag. Had him on facebook and he would constantly post pictures of himself, pics of when he was young and comparisons (who the **** does this?).

Turns out he was also a woman basher, piece of shit of a human