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Caesar said:
Hey, steady on. So I'm a bit WASPy. Fault of my parents and schooling, no need to shoot me.
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:rolleyes: You need to grow up (and grow some balls). You're suggesting you're some sort of classy ex private schoolboy that is "above" prostitution, right? There is no excuse for elitism nor ignorance.

tip: no you're not above it, you're just soft. And the fact that you can't openly talk to you mates about paying for sex suggests how sterile you are and that you don't have the ability to form close relationships with your friends.

Do you like tennis by any chance? Boat shoes? Chinos?
 
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bunsen burner said:
:rolleyes: You need to grow up (and grow some balls). You're suggesting you're some sort of classy ex private schoolboy that is "above" prostitution, right? There is no excuse for elitism nor ignorance.

tip: no you're not above it, you're just soft. And the fact that you can't openly talk to you mates about paying for sex suggests how sterile you are and that you don't have the ability to form close relationships with your friends.

Do you like tennis by any chance? Boat shoes? Chinos?
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It's nothing to do with 'classiness' or wealth... not sure where you get that from. Just making the point that I was brought up in a fairly traditional environment, where that stuff was always drilled into you as taboo. That stuff has hangovers into adulthood, meaning I'm still kind of naturally uncomfortable talking about it. Vestiges of Protestant morality, whatever you want to call it. It's not a question of elitism, more just conditioning. Happens to everyone in some form or another, your worldview is always shaped by how you grew up.

Kind of like swearing. My parents cracked down on it massively when we were kids, so as a consequence neither me or my brother really swear at all. Not because we look down on it, just because we were sort of conditioned out of it. My automatic go-to words when I'm pissed off/frustrated/injured are things like damn/blast/bloody hell.
 
Caesar said:
My automatic go-to words when I'm pissed off/frustrated/injured are things like damn/blast/bloody hell.
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I now sincerely apologise to bunsen, said vagina is imminent.

:D

On topic, I'm not a fan of prostitutes but I think if you're going to choose that path you should spend enough money to get something really stunning.

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By reading this:

bunsen burner said:
You need to grow up (and grow some balls). You're suggesting you're some sort of classy ex private schoolboy that is "above" prostitution, right? There is no excuse for elitism nor ignorance.

tip: no you're not above it, you're just soft. And the fact that you can't openly talk to you mates about paying for sex suggests how sterile you are and that you don't have the ability to form close relationships with your friends.

Do you like tennis by any chance? Boat shoes? Chinos?
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Effectively all i'm thinking is this:

bunsen burner said:
I use hookers all the time. I love it. Stop making me feel bad for banging hookers by saying it's dirty.
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jonoman89 said:
By reading this:



Effectively all i'm thinking is this:
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Not quite. What I'm thinking is:

a) Yes I have used a hooker and don't see the big deal. I certainly don't feel dirty, seedy, or ashamed.
b) Yes I have some mates who use them, some who don't. No big deal. No slight on the people who use them and the people who don't
c) In a past life I used to deal with prostitution and the sex industry for a number of years. I know it inside and out. The OPs views are ignorant.
 

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bunsen burner said:
c) In a past life I used to deal with prostitution and the sex industry for a number of years. I know it inside and out. The OPs views are ignorant.
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I'd be interested in hearing more about this. I mean, I think the whole idea of prostitution is a bit icky, acknowledge thats a personal view, and thats probably not going to change.

But I freely admit that I don't know much about the sex trade and some of my practical objections (e.g. front for organised crime, populated by women economically trapped in the profession) might be uninformed. Want to expand a bit on those points, rather than just hurl insults?
 
Caesar said:
I'd be interested in hearing more about this. I mean, I think the whole idea of prostitution is a bit icky, acknowledge thats a personal view, and thats probably not going to change.

But I freely admit that I don't know much about the sex trade and some of my practical objections (e.g. front for organised crime, populated by women economically trapped in the profession) might be uninformed. Want to expand a bit on those points, rather than just hurl insults?
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It's complex - i could write a book. There are elements of crime, drug dependency, exploitation, and even slavery, but on the other hand there are normal girls (quite a few drug free) who might do it for a short time while studying, travelling, etc.

There's varying degrees of esteem. Some love sex (very few), some love the excitement, money, flexibiliy of the industry, some are comfortable with who they are, some are open about it to their family and friends, some live double lives, some are ashamed and have trouble reconciling their actions.

A very high percentage of girls are there at their own free will.
 
MalceskiFan said:
How many people honestly look back on their first time as 'special' anyway? For most of us it was an awkward, weird experience, most likely followed up with an apology. Why do that to a 'real' person?
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hahah post of the year

well articulated
 
bunsen burner said:
:rolleyes: You need to grow up (and grow some balls). You're suggesting you're some sort of classy ex private schoolboy that is "above" prostitution, right? There is no excuse for elitism nor ignorance.

tip: no you're not above it, you're just soft. And the fact that you can't openly talk to you mates about paying for sex suggests how sterile you are and that you don't have the ability to form close relationships with your friends.

Do you like tennis by any chance? Boat shoes? Chinos?
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bunsen burner said:
:rolleyes: You need to grow up (and grow some balls). You're suggesting you're some sort of classy ex private schoolboy that is "above" prostitution, right? There is no excuse for elitism nor ignorance.

tip: no you're not above it, you're just soft. And the fact that you can't openly talk to you mates about paying for sex suggests how sterile you are and that you don't have the ability to form close relationships with your friends.

Do you like tennis by any chance? Boat shoes? Chinos?
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Sorry cesear, you're more than likely a great guy but bunsen has hit the nail on the head here.
 
So no one can be above prostitution? As men we're all equally deprived animals and none of us are too good for a whore?
 

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Caesar said:
It's nothing to do with 'classiness' or wealth... not sure where you get that from. Just making the point that I was brought up in a fairly traditional environment, where that stuff was always drilled into you as taboo. That stuff has hangovers into adulthood, meaning I'm still kind of naturally uncomfortable talking about it. Vestiges of Protestant morality, whatever you want to call it. It's not a question of elitism, more just conditioning. Happens to everyone in some form or another, your worldview is always shaped by how you grew up.

Kind of like swearing. My parents cracked down on it massively when we were kids, so as a consequence neither me or my brother really swear at all. Not because we look down on it, just because we were sort of conditioned out of it. My automatic go-to words when I'm pissed off/frustrated/injured are things like damn/blast/bloody hell.
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:rolleyes::rolleyes: JESUS!!!

90% of us were bought up with some sort of religious "morality" but have recognised it's a load of rubbish.

There are things i don't feel comfortable talking about but I don't wear it as a badge of honor "this is how i was bought up"! I just shut up and let people talk about, or do, what they want to do!

"i'm still naturally uncomfortable talking about" - yet you start a thread on it. It's like you're asking a poster like bb to cyber beat you into awareness.
 
DeadlyAkkuret said:
So no one can be above prostitution? As men we're all equally deprived animals and none of us are too good for a whore?
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Correct.

It's not really about being "above". If you are one of the many who choose never to use one for whatever reason, it doesn't mean you're "above" them.

I would never enter into a serious relationship with a prossie. Just a personal choice. Doesn't make me "above" them. I respect what they do, it's just not for me.

At the end of the day many of them are comfortable with what they do. It's legal and it's moral. It's a simple service that offers women a certain type of lifestyle and offers men a no strings shag.

Prostitutes deserve respect along with the rest of us. Again, it's not about being above them it's just about being different. I have mates whose ego would be damaged going to a brothel. They need to get some perspective and be more relaxed about sex and their ego.
 
nicky said:
:rolleyes::rolleyes: JESUS!!!

90% of us were bought up with some sort of religious "morality" but have recognised it's a load of rubbish.

There are things i don't feel comfortable talking about but I don't wear it as a badge of honor "this is how i was bought up"! I just shut up and let people talk about, or do, what they want to do!

"i'm still naturally uncomfortable talking about" - yet you start a thread on it. It's like you're asking a poster like bb to cyber beat you into awareness.
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Well, strangers on the net is different to sitting around with mates isn't it? I'm not saying I WANT to be uncomfortable talking about it, much less consider it a badge of honour that I am. It's just a quirk of personality; if anything, probably a detrimental one. Which is kind of why I started this thread - to thrash out a topic that I probably couldn't in a group of friends.

To that extent I've found this discussion pretty useful. BB telling me to sack up, not so much. ;) Although to be fair, I can sort of see where he's coming from.
 
Your mate needs a service and they provide it for a fee. So why would you be against it?
It's legal. Brothels are licensed and have strict regulations they need to adhere to.
Its safe. These women have to undergo regular health checks to ensure they are disease free. Condom use is also mandatory, though I don't know why anyone would be dumb enough to not use one.
Its a guaranteed service. You know what you're gonna get, unlike attempting one night stands.

I have a 26yr old friend who is a virgin (he claims he's not, but we know he is). I've suggested he go see a hooker.
 
Sounds like a good idea. As others have said, first time is usually just embarrassing, not particularly enjoyable & something to get out of the way. If he goes somewhere decent he'll have someone good looking and understanding, someone who's seen it all - compared to what, with his experience he'd normally be able to get (drunken bush pig). I'd be more worried about catching something from a one night stand. It's in the working girls interest to stay clean, she wants repeat business, she doesn't want a bad rap, & neither will the brothel that employs her. Drunk slappers on the other hand, you'll probably never see again ... I say go for it.
 

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