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[Matele]

We did fancy eachother, but then she friendzoned me last minute. Like she's been doing ALL of HIGH SCHOOL

Mate, in high school I was close with two of the popular girls at my school. which is weird for me, but anyway.. Got friendzoned by one, then met The other the year later (through this first girl no less). Got really close to her, to the point where if I had have asked her, we'd have been a couple (and knowing her, would have done shit, which is the dream for any 16 year old guy) .The first girl then talked her out of it during the school holidays after we had a little disagreement, and I got friendzoned by her as well.

Moral of the story. I'm an idiot.. That's it really.

 

[Andonis1997]

Mate, in high school I was close with two of the popular girls at my school. which is weird for me, but anyway.. Got friendzoned by one, then met The other the year later (through this first girl no less). Got really close to her, to the point where if I had have asked her, we'd have been a couple (and knowing her, would have done shit, which is the dream for any 16 year old guy) .The first girl then talked her out of it during the school holidays after we had a little disagreement, and I got friendzoned by her as well.

Moral of the story. I'm an idiot.. That's it really.

Damn, that's unfortunate

 

[Maxwell110]

Ando, what you gotta do is go around to her house and spray paint a love message on her driveway.

 

[Bacon Warrior]

Ando, what you gotta do is go around to her house and spray paint a love message on her driveway.

Don't sneak into her house and feel up her brother though, Andonis1997

 

[Bryce_Jersey17]

Don't sneak into her house and feel up her brother though, Andonis1997

Past experience?

 

[TheLoungeLizard]

Cum in an envelope and mail it to her.

 

[Greater Gattsby]

Ando, what you gotta do is go around to her house and spray paint a love message on her driveway.

Don't sneak into her house and feel up her brother though, Andonis1997

Inbetweeners <3

 

[Dylan8]

Cum in an envelope and mail it to her.

Cum on a picture of her, take a picture of it, then mail both in that came-in envelope to her.

/mods

 

[Greater Gattsby]

Cum in an envelope and mail it to her.

Not far enough.

 

[Andonis1997]

Don't sneak into her house and feel up her brother though, Andonis1997

Only child. Which is kinda good?

 

[Gibbsy]

I first watched him when he did his Sweet Dream Team stuff a few years ago, then he went mainstream. He's still just as funny (not a whole lot funny), I'm just trying to get some hipster points for knowing who he was before he was famous.

I see him out and about around Adelaide sometimes, too. He's actually pretty tall.

haha yep that's when I first knew him, I think it was "Alex's ****in Sweet Dream Team!" or something along those lines. I remember him interviewing Chad Cornes in the seats of AAMI Stadium in about 2008, the bloke had no idea what Alex was on about. Or was it Andrew Embley? Or both

 

[Bryce_Jersey17]

Not far enough.

Mail it to her via another country? Is that the correct amount of distance required?

 

[TheLoungeLizard]

Not far enough.

Spray it down with air freshener for romance.

 

[Dylan8]

haha yep that's when I first knew him, I think it was "Alex's ****in Sweet Dream Team!" or something along those lines. I remember him interviewing Chad Cornes in the seats of AAMI Stadium in about 2008, the bloke had no idea what Alex was on about. Or was it Andrew Embley? Or both

Did it with Daniel Motlop and Tippett iirc, and yes, Embley.

 

[Greater Gattsby]

haha yep that's when I first knew him, I think it was "Alex's ****in Sweet Dream Team!" or something along those lines. I remember him interviewing Chad Cornes in the seats of AAMI Stadium in about 2008, the bloke had no idea what Alex was on about. Or was it Andrew Embley? Or both

I remember his take on the ben cousins documentary.

Was pretty funny, but nonetheless taking the piss out of something very serious and could be seen as quite distasteful.

 

[Dylan8]

Spray it down with air freshener for romance.

I think you mean Lynx deodorant

 

[TheLoungeLizard]

I think you mean Lynx deodorant

Too obvious, Pine Fresh is where it's at.

 

[Matele]

I think you mean Lynx deodorant

That stuff is body spray, can't possibly be deodorant.

 

[El_Scorcho]

Can you guys do me a favour never ever use the term friendzone again? It's incredibly unbecoming.

Some girls (or boys!) just want to be your friend. Or they like you a bit more but the timing is wrong or whatever. If they are cool just be their friend and be cool about it and if something is going to happen it will happen. You haven't been friendzoned. You just have a friend.

 

[Dylan8]

The key is not to be in the entirely imagined friendzone and just treat the person as a friend, rather than this elusive romantic interest, which is definitely entirely in your head.

 

[El_Scorcho]

The key is not to be in the entirely imagined friendzone and just treat the person as a friend, rather than this elusive romantic interest, which is definitely entirely in your head.

^ this.

The only person who can put you in the friendzone is you.

As you get older you'll probably find that girls that you end up having relationships with are the ones that you're friends with first and it will happen naturally.

If it doesn't happen naturally it probably shouldn't and wont happen.

 

[Matele]

"I like you, but I'm too scared to be anything more then friends, in case I lose you."

I get that line far too often. Is there a risk of losing the chance to be with someone by being too friendly towards them before you act?

 

[El_Scorcho]

"I like you, but I'm too scared to be anything more then friends, in case I lose you."

I get that line far too often. Is there a risk of losing the chance to be with someone by being too friendly towards them before you act?

This is code for "I don't like you in that way" from a girl that likes you enough as a friend to try not to hurt your feelings.

Sorry mate.

But it's okay. The good news is that you don't have to change anything about yourself, other than to stop worrying whether girls like you or not.

Unless you have literally known someone for years and the are one of your very best friends over the long term, this is not a real excuse and it never will be. There is absolutely no risk of anything by being yourself, just be yourself. The girls will feel however they feel about you and you can't control that. Just be safe in the knowledge that there are 3.5 billion women on this planet and you're the right guy for at a very conservative estimate, tens of thousands of them.

You'll find the right ones when you don't worry so much about it.

 

[Bryce_Jersey17]

"I like you, but I'm too scared to be anything more then friends, in case I lose you."

I get that line far too often. Is there a risk of losing the chance to be with someone by being too friendly towards them before you act?

God I've heard that one too many times. I seem to become the grief counsellor/shoulder to cry on for bad relationships and life in general.

There was one girl who went out with, broke up with FIVE TIMES and everytime I got the cliche line of "I wish I had someone like you. Id go out with you if you were someone else".

Eventually I turned around and said, "Its now or never". She said no so I stopped talking to her. Deleted any contact with her and my life has been somewhat nicer, to an extent.

 

[El_Scorcho]

God I've heard that one too many times. I seem to become the grief counsellor/shoulder to cry on for bad relationships and life in general.

There was one girl who went out with, broke up with FIVE TIMES and everytime I got the cliche line of "I wish I had someone like you. Id go out with you if you were someone else".

Eventually I turned around and said, "Its now or never". She said no so I stopped talking to her. Deleted any contact with her and my life has been somewhat nicer, to an extent.

Every teen is a grief counsellor because every other teen is full of angst. Its part of being a teenager. Ultimately, if you didn't enjoy being her friend, why did you spend so much time talking to her?

"I wish I had someone like you. Id go out with you if you were someone else". - If anyone ever gets told something like that, it's time to throw in the towel fellas. It's never gonna happen.

You'll find once you stop spending so much time worrying about how she feels, you'll be a lot more content with life. I don't really think you need to stop having contact with her to do that. In fact it's probably a lot healthier if you can come to the realisation that she'll only ever be your friend, and that's okay, because she's a cool friend, and do so while you are still good friends with her. You can go and find someone else while still being this girl's friend, if you're at all interested in being her friend.