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You mean internalised homophobia and horizontal hostility? It is pretty fascinating research. You can read the wiki on domestic violence in lesbian relationships if you want to just gloss over the basics.

If you want to know how prevalent domestic violence is...

Oh it happens of course.
 
Testosterone is also the reason why females get angry and bitchy on their period, fun fact🥰🥰🥰


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And then testosterone deficiency in men can cause mood swings and violence as well, especially as they hit their late 30s and 40s. Hormones are amazing things.
 
And then testosterone deficiency in men can cause mood swings and violence as well, especially as they hit their late 30s and 40s. Hormones are amazing things.

I’m hormonephobic


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I got my first student allowance payment today and I have urges to go on a shopping spree.

How do you guys save money? My coach told me barefoot investor or whatever but I have poor financial management [emoji31][emoji31] plz help


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Avoid piss and avoid the punt. That's where most young men waste their money.

I know blokes who get paid Friday and are broke by Monday because they go piss their whole paycheck up the wall.
 
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Avoid piss and avoid the punt. That's where most young men waste their money.

I know blokes who get paid Friday and are broke my Monday because they go piss their whole paycheck up the wall.

I am a lady[emoji31] I’m going to stay away from the Internet shopping places


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As if they are going to start making me pay my uni fees at 45k

**** scomo


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I got my first student allowance payment today and I have urges to go on a shopping spree.

How do you guys save money? My coach told me barefoot investor or whatever but I have poor financial management [emoji31][emoji31] plz help


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Most valuable lesson my mum ever taught me. If you want something, save up for it, pay for it, it's yours.
 
As if they are going to start making me pay my uni fees at 45k

fu** scomo


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Absolute joke. Also a reflection on how ****ed the job market is and wages are. Used to be $60k a decade ago, then they realised too many of those kids going into tens of thousands of dollars of debt can't crack that figure. So instead of helping them out they decided to kick them while they're down and call in the debt before they are even earning the average wage.
 
Avoid piss and avoid the punt. That's where most young men waste their money.

I know blokes who get paid Friday and are broke my Monday because they go piss their whole paycheck up the wall.

Great call. Not having vices is a recipe for saving money.
 
Oh, but the fun we had!

Depending on your priorities it can of course be worth it. I have mates who spend a tonne on grog and wouldn't have it any other way, it's what they enjoy. Another puts tens of thousands into a motoring hobby, that's his fun and he wouldn't change it.

For me I want nothing more than control of my own time, and I do enjoy vacations as well, so I'm tight on things I don't get much enjoyment from (alcohol, partying, take away food) with the aim of a longer term early retirement plan, and for my holidays I spend up a bit more. Even on them though I'm choosy, accommodation for us is usually cheapish since we aren't hotel dwellers, bit we'll hit up some really highly rated restaurants in the area, and spend a bit bigger on experiences, because we enjoy that when on vacation.

It's when you start sinking all your money into stuff that is just pure convenience or you get very little enjoyment from that you begin to regret what could have been.
 

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Depending on your priorities it can of course be worth it. I have mates who spend a tonne on grog and wouldn't have it any other way, it's what they enjoy. Another puts tens of thousands into a motoring hobby, that's his fun and he wouldn't change it.

For me I want nothing more than control of my own time, and I do enjoy vacations as well, so I'm tight on things I don't get much enjoyment from (alcohol, partying, take away food) with the aim of a longer term early retirement plan, and for my holidays I spend up a bit more. Even on them though I'm choosy, accommodation for us is usually cheapish since we aren't hotel dwellers, bit we'll hit up some really highly rated restaurants in the area, and spend a bit bigger on experiences, because we enjoy that when on vacation.

It's when you start sinking all your money into stuff that is just pure convenience or you get very little enjoyment from that you begin to regret what could have been.
Agree. When I was a kid the only way my dad managed to quit smoking was to put the cash he would have spent into a tin each day to save up for an ashes trip. If he smoked it went back into more mundane things.

He's had seven trips so far and loved every one.

I do the same for random indulgences now (not smoking but spur of the moment things that don't have much value), and we are much better off for it.
 
I got my first student allowance payment today and I have urges to go on a shopping spree.

How do you guys save money? My coach told me barefoot investor or whatever but I have poor financial management [emoji31][emoji31] plz help


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Simple. Spend less than you earn.
 
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How do you guys save money? My coach told me barefoot investor or whatever but I have poor financial management [emoji31][emoji31] plz help


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Guaranteed way to save a six figure sum - don't get divorced.
 

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Academic postmodernist horse sh*t needs to masturbate with language in order to convey an air of intellectual credence to the sub 80 I.Q. morons that lap it up. It's all baseless word salad.

Don't believe me? Just read this:
Academic postmodernist horse sh*t needs to masturbate with language in order to convey an air of intellectual credence to the sub 80 I.Q. morons that lap it up. It's all baseless word salad.

Don't believe me? Just read this:
Academic postmodernist horse sh*t needs to masturbate with language in order to convey an air of intellectual credence to the sub 80 I.Q. morons that lap it up. It's all baseless word salad.

Don't believe me? Just etc etc.
 
fu** all that. I’m actually curious about where ‘toxic masculinity’ came from. There’s nothing toxic about being masculine imo. If anything it can be used by dickheads to justify their behaviour, “not my fault, too much testosterone”
There are things about being a man that are important. Being strong and courageous, Holding your ground and protecting your family, working to look after them .... ultimately being prepared to die, or kill, to keep your family and community safe. Nothing wrong with fighting either, in certain circumstances. That is healthy masculinity. (There is more to it than that too.)

So when those things get warped by your ego and you turn into a campaigner who tries to control the people you should nurture and make up for all the little failings in your life by attacking and hurting weaker people ... that is what toxic masculinity is. I think you are right tho, being an arseh*le is probably a better description
 
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