My condolences. Unfortunately as mentioned it is quite common and something myself and wife also experienced and as mentioned getting pregnant seems to only come easy to trash that don't really deserve it. All I can say is take time to recover and heal, then get back to trying again and enlist the help of health professionals for both of your current mental states if needed, and for falling pregnant again in the future. All the best.So yesterday my wife and I went for her 12 week scan and unfortunately the worst has happened and we have had a miscarriage. I feel lost and don't really know what to do. If any of the big footy brethren has any advice or has gone through something similar. She's currently blaming herself. Um Yeah so that'd be great. Thanks in advance.