Relationship Guidance

[Squeak]

FP

Are you suggesting the world would be a better place if everyone was celibate. Granted, it would reduce overpopulation problems, but I can't see many other benefits.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by Squeak
FP

Are you suggesting the world would be a better place if everyone was celibate. Granted, it would reduce overpopulation problems, but I can't see many other benefits.

No, what I was trying to get across to the young bloke who posted the original message was to be careful and use his brain. The twisted slant that has been put on my original message by a couple of other posters, who are obviously legends in their own lunchboxes on account of their ability to pick up any cheap floozy, is not of my doing.

 

[sabre_ac]

Ok speaking from personal experiencfe (as recent as 2 weeks ago).

It ended badly for me she didnt feel the same way, and I dont want to see her again even though I think she wants to stay friends.
Females are impossible to read I could have sworn she was keen but alas I was wrong.
But you know what I dont regret it, you have to find out.
It will eat away at you and chances are you will waste 6 months only focusing on the one girl like me.
My advice is get drunk, let it slip out, if it doesnt work out blame it on the alcohol.
But make sure you say somthing, wondering is a bitch.

PS If it doesnt work out (chances are it wont) try and be a little more grown up than me, stay friends. I couldnt and I think that hurt her but thats life.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by bunsen burner
Yes, but you don't realise that you are telling it like it is for you - which is vastly different to the norm.

Why would you give someone advice when the odds are that it won't be relevant to them? Why would you tell people not to bother having a relationship because poor old you can't get over one? Most people have tougher skins than you. Me thinks you are a bit soft. Cliff Richard soft.

Your posts are now becoming rather stupid. They were humorous for a while but now they are just foolish. Two things, firstly, poor old me cant get over a relationship you reckon? Ive been divorced 4 years and won the whole settlement,and am well and truly over it. And I haven't entered into any other relationships since. So don't twist the meaning of my advice to the original poster to suit your own stupid agenda. I told the kid to watch his butt.. that's it.

Secondly. you're the soft one. You are too soft to face life's realities.Easier to sweep them out of sight where you don't have to confront them, or pretend they don't exist.
And what a predilection for the work of a particular entertainer has to do with all this; I'll never know.
Now quit trolling before you get us both banned.

 

[bunsen burner]

Originally posted by sabre_ac
My advice is get drunk, let it slip out, if it doesnt work out blame it on the alcohol.

I don't think the judge will buy that. Alcohol is no excuse for indecent exposure.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by sabre_ac

Females are impossible to read I could have sworn she was keen but alas I was wrong.

Bingo. You have hit the nail squarely on the head. Take note all you other fools. And if you think they change as they get older, forget it.

 

[sabre_ac]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Bingo. You have hit the nail squarely on the head. Take note all you other fools. And if you think they change as they get older, forget it.

There is no sure fire way of knowing unless you ask.
Constant messaging a sign?? No
Constant touchign a sign?? No
Constant biting a sign?? No

If a guy likes a girl he checks her out more than once..period.
Simple and obvious

 

[bunsen burner]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Bingo. You have hit the nail squarely on the head. Take note all you other fools. And if you think they change as they get older, forget it.

Sure, they're hard to read. So what? Build a bridge. Get over it. In your case, I'd enlist the help of a shrink.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by bunsen burner
Sure, they're hard to read. So what? Build a bridge. Get over it. In your case, I'd enlist the help of a shrink.

Remeber that when you have a sexual harassment lawsuit on your head.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by sabre_ac
There is no sure fire way of knowing unless you ask.
Constant messaging a sign?? No
Constant touchign a sign?? No
Constant biting a sign?? No

If a guy likes a girl he checks her out more than once..period.
Simple and obvious

Yep, you're just describing The Amber Light Syndrome, the female's greatest weapon. Note the similaritiy to placing a piece of cheese in a mousetrap??

As for if a guy likes a girl, it depends what type of man he is to how he reacts. if he's a boor then he'll rush in. But if he's a decent guy, he'll play it smart and qualify the odds.

I can empathise totally with you mate having just been thru a very similar situation to yours except I didnt pursue it. It just didnt seem worth screwing up my career over.

 

[bunsen burner]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Remeber that when you have a sexual harassment lawsuit on your head.

So that's what this whole thing is about? Your bitter because you were accused of sexual harassment?

 

[EssJayW]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Bingo. You have hit the nail squarely on the head. Take note all you other fools. And if you think they change as they get older, forget it.

How can you possibly generalise that all females are like the ones you have dealt with, or that all relationships end up the same way. Tell that to my grandmother who was married for 68 years before my grandfather died.

You are seriously disturbed. Go out and seek a self help group.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by bunsen burner
So that's what this whole thing is about? Your bitter because you were accused of sexual harassment?

No, I'm a little bit too smart for that to happen.If I was like you though I would have probably landed myself in hot water. Why is it you thinkI'm bitter because I have an opinion that differs from yours? It's weird to say the least.

 

[bunsen burner]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Yep, you're just describing The Amber Light Syndrome, the female's greatest weapon. Note the similaritiy to placing a piece of cheese in a mousetrap??

What's this? From the Professor Julius Sumner-Milner book of sex tips?

Have you ever considered that (some) guys too give the amber light just so they can string girls along for sex?

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by EssJayW

You are seriously disturbed.

From someone who states their location as asylum?? Good one.

 

[EssJayW]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
From someone who states their location as asylum?? Good one.

Why dont you try responding to the rest of my post?

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by bunsen burner
What's this? From the Professor Julius Sumner-Milner book of sex tips?

Have you ever considered that (some) guys too give the amber light just so they can string girls along for sex?

Yeah sure they do. But as I have noted here before, they're the type of men they are attracted to. But I hardly think you can call blatant sexual advances amber lights. Amber lights cover such things as ambiguous compliments, observations about appearance, and so on. Sexual advances are definately green I would think.

 

[bunsen burner]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
If I was like you though I would have probably landed myself in hot water.

Probably not. However, you would be able to get a hard-on.

Why is it you thinkI'm bitter because I have an opinion that differs from yours?

I think you're bitter because you clearly are. You have a bigger problem than first diagnosed - it's hard to get help when you don't know anything is wrong.

Remember, the first step to recovery is to admit you have a problem. Repeat after me, "Hi my names Fullarton Power and I am bitter about women".

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by EssJayW
Why dont you try responding to the rest of my post?

I treated it with the contempt it deserved. Post something that makes sense to the thread and not a personal attack.

 

[ozzult]

I wouldn't take advice from anyone who calls themselves a "Professional Eunuch".

Maybe that is the reason chicks don't fall for you...

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by bunsen burner
Probably not.


I think you're bitter because you clearly are. You have a bigger problem than first diagnosed - it's hard to get help when you don't know anything is wrong.

Remember, the first step to recovery is to admit you have a problem. Repeat after me, "Hi my names Fullarton Power and I am bitter about women".

Either you can't read, are totally stupid, or don't speak English. Or just trolling for the hell of it. Warning a kid against rushing into blurting out hormonally affected feelings for a girl equates to being bitter against the whole gender.. I must remember that...

Probably not?? hahaha. You know nothing about it. I would love to seek your expert analysis on the specifics, but I dont wish to bore everyone by dragging it out in a public forum.

 

[EssJayW]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
I treated it with the contempt it deserved. Post something that makes sense to the thread and not a personal attack.

No. Maybe you have no answers other than your bitter and twisted perspective about females. I still think you can respond to it. Try some honesty.

Here is the post again without the advice. Although the advice is sound.

How can you possibly generalise that all females are like the ones you have dealt with, or that all relationships end up the same way. Tell that to my grandmother who was married for 68 years before my grandfather died.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by ozzult
I wouldn't take advice from anyone who calls themselves a "Professional Eunuch".

Maybe that is the reason chicks don't fall for you...

who knows why?? One thing's for sure, this business about wanting sensitive guys who treat them properly is a load of bollocks.

 

[bunsen burner]

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Either you can't read, are totally stupid, or don't speak English. Or just trolling for the hell of it. Warning a kid against rushing into blurting out hormonally affected feelings for a girl equates to being bitter against the whole gender.. I must remember that...

It's not just about this thread - and I think you know that. There are at least 4 or 5 threads where you are not stop whining and whingeing about women. There was even a thread about football where you somehow managed to slip in an anti-women/relationship/sex whinge.

Probably not?? hahaha. You know nothing about it.

You said that if you were me you'd get into trouble re sexual harassment. As I know me and you don't, I thought my answer was appropriate.

but I dont wish to bore everyone by dragging it out in a public forum.

Try me.

 

[Fullarton Power]

Originally posted by EssJayW
No. Maybe you have no answers other than your bitter and twisted perspective about females. I still think you can respond to it. Try some honesty.

Here is the post again without the advice. Although the advice is sound.

How can you possibly generalise that all females are like the ones you have dealt with, or that all relationships end up the same way. Tell that to my grandmother who was married for 68 years before my grandfather died.

Easy answer, mate. Values in those days were very different. There wasn't the hedonistic culture we have today. Or the marketing and media campaigns etc.. Do you think mny modern couples would last that long??

And seriously , the advice was rubbish.