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Depends. What were your wedding vows?

Yeah ok. On the same page as you now. By saying letting each other do their own thing
I didn't mean rooting whoever whenever

Doh silly me
 
And watched you look like an emasculated fool whilst doing so, bitch.

talking about fools:

mature respectful bloke who isn't running around chasing women said:
most men are morons who think with their ****. I control my ****

stud muffin said:
Ive had a quick browse through that site (ashleymadison) and it looks like a gold mine. Its next on my list.

You've contradicted yourself so many times it's not funny. You don't know your dick from your ankle.

and:

caring genuine guy who doesn't think with his dick said:
I dont friend up with girls to have sex.

I befriend them after the sexual relationship is over. I dont have sex with them all continuously because i prefer to only have one sexual partner most of the time.


mr flip flop said:
I like going for coffees with friends who have vaginas i dont want to have sex with.

Firstly you claim you don't meet with girls as a way of trying to hookup. Then later you bragged about how many of these girls you banged.

You also say you friend them after sex. What? You say you go have coffee and don't want to bang them? If you've already banged them it sort of proves you would sleep with them.

Also have to question how many girls want to hook up with a guy for a platonic relationship after being banged. Unless they have the hots for you most want to move on.


Observations

1. You contradict yourself regularly. Too dumb to put a coherent consistent argument together
2. There's a high chance you're full of shit. You've been caught to many times contradicting your claims. It's quite possible all the girls think you're cute but would not bang.
3. You seem to be arguing with me because you don't like me. You accuse me of having some sort of "issue" whereas the evidence supports a random on the internet pisses you off so bad you can't stop yourself from arguing
4. You haven't worked out you have been comprehensively owned in last thread as well as this.

Pity da fool
 

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Im too high to give a **** now.

Lie and assume to your hearts content.

Nothing i have said is untruthful.

You are trying to fit relationships and friendships into a venn diagram. You are looking at the concept and applying it to everything because you have a closed off circled jerk view of females.

You hide behind having a family as some kind of fallback for not using your ****.

You think with yours, and its got you a ball and chain and pr0n.

ive done a lot of thinking on how to use mine (reading/experimentation) and i have good to great sex every few days.

Yet you attacked my masculinity?
 
One thing I am seriously over tho- is going on holiday alone. Went to the Gold Coast a few weeks ago, had a pretty shit time. :(

if you on holidays on your own your need to stay in a hostel - even if you're not up for the dorm accommodation, you can stay in a private room and you'll still have the opportunity to meet people.

staying in a hotel on your own it's tough to meet anyone. if you're even a slightly creepy looking guy then you have no chance.

the movies make it look like you can just roll into hotel bar on your own, pull up a seat at the taps and within a few hours you have the bar girl/guy back in your room.
 
As I get older Im finding that time by myself is becoming more and more precious and rare. Especially now that Im getting serious with the missus and the folks are old, sick and need more looking after.

About once every six months I have a day off work. I dont tell the missus cos she would want to have a day off at the same time so we can do 'fun' things (like gardening, buying s*it for the house we dont need and looking at her watch s*it tv shows like Geordie Shore).

These days off alone are magical yet at the same time so simple. I plan them months in advance and look forward to them like Christmas. A typical day off alone would involve:

- Sleep in (dont wanna go too late though to waste the day)
- Maccas for breakfast
- Purchasing of a new xbox game to play all day
- Copius amounts of lobstertube
- Copious amounts of Bigfooty and other forums I visit
- Toasted sandwiches or sausage rolls
- Junk food
- Maybe a movie
- Organised sport later in the evening to snap out of my daze (usually a game of tennis)

if those days ever need planning months in advance then i'm done. count me out.
 
Surely going for coffee by yourself isn't considered abnormal? I go occasionally with friends or the girlfriend, but, for me, going for coffee is all about being by yourself and unwinding. Although I try to go on off-peak times or days so as not to feel as though I'm holding a table, or try to find a suitably quiet, but not empty, cafe.

Pretty much everyday these holidays I've gone to the local coffee shop, ordered a latte and a muffin, then another latte, and read a book. As morning tea slowly bleeds into lunch I'd head down to the river with a bought sandwich and continue reading, going for a float when I felt like it. As the day rounded mid-afternoon and I got the urge to make something of my day, I'd head home and put in a few good hours on the Wii U I got for Xmas. The day's are just packed. It perfectly encapsulates summer.

I've taken people with me before, but I'm always worried that they're having enough fun and whether they're ready to head home or not.
 
Might sound like a loner but I enjoy my own company. Don't want to be with others 24/7 and am happy to sometimes do stuff alone

Sounds like this could be part of a "popular opinions thread"by the sound of this thread. I agree with your statement as well.
 

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This thread has got me questioning myself whenever I'm alone now
 
I went to toy story 3 by myself
Was school holidays so the place was packed with kids and i felt like a bit of a creep, being a middle age dude sitting by myself
 
You're missing the point - just because someone speculates about the reason you might be somewhere, doesn't automatically mean that it's a socially unacceptable activity that is being 'rationalised'. People people-watch.


i think you are missing the point.

most people don't speculate about why people are at a restaurant or whatever. you may, but you'd be in the minority here i assume.

that said, the simple fact is you're far more likely to "speculate" or "rationalise" why someone is eating by themselves at a table set for two, than you are a couple or a group, because, rightly or wrongly, it is less socially acceptable to eat alone.
 

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If you are eating/drinking/travelling solo one of the fun things to do while people watching is pick a person and then write a little story about them, who they are, who they're with, and why they are there. I've done this for years now and have books full of these little pen pictures. It's good for your creative writing skills too.
 
Got a big self date planned tomorrow. Knicks game and a dog why not

Might meet a person or two
 
If you are eating/drinking/travelling solo one of the fun things to do while people watching is pick a person and then write a little story about them, who they are, who they're with, and why they are there. I've done this for years now and have books full of these little pen pictures. It's good for your creative writing skills too.

Will have to try it some day in between knitting and games of backgammon
 

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