Okay folks, it's healing time. We have done this sort of thread before when we have had a build up of frustrations and tensions and we lash out at the ones we love and we come in here and confess we went too far, didn't mean something, that it was not personal, that it escalated and we could have phrased ourselves better. If you address somebody specific, they should accept what you have to say and let bygones be bygones. Moderators around BF have been noticing an increasing in 'snark' of late. Have you noticed it? Have you been guilty of it? Wipe your slate clean, clear your conscience, be the bigger man/woman. Bring out your mea culpas and unload a year of debate.