I'm tipping he's still here and reading this^
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So what BigFooty isn’t like tinder?
Kurve
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Do you Tinder? I've never been on those things but for when my kids hacked my facebook and thought it would be hilarious to load a back shot nude of me onto some dating app. As a lesbian.
I didn't know what was going on.
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I've never had one on here -and fwiw all the ppl i've met irl have been great-, but have heard a couple horror stories. You gotta be careful.
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Never been on tinder. The thought of just talking to someone for 5 minutes online, then meeting irl soon after scares the hell outta me.
Whatever happened to taking your time getting to know someone? Suppose thats gone to shit, ppl are just disposable now.
Its pretty depressing actually.
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Never been on tinder. The thought of just talking to someone for 5 minutes online, then meeting irl soon after scares the hell outta me.
Whatever happened to taking your time getting to know someone? Suppose thats gone to shit, ppl are just disposable now.
Not much different to meeting someone in a bar is it? Effectively you like their face and decide to have a chat, usually in a loud social space where you really have no idea about the person anyway.
It's the same thing in different packaging.
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Well i wouldnt be going home with them in that instance either tho.
Ive seen guys on this site post "ah you havent ****ed in at least 3 dates move on"- Nttawwt, but its just not for me, no thanks.
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I wouldn't be asking a tinderella over after 5 minutes, but the general gist of 'talk to complete stranger, decide to see complete stranger in a more one-on-one setting to see if we like each other' is pretty much the same process via tinder as it is at a bar.
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Never been on tinder. The thought of just talking to someone for 5 minutes online, then meeting irl soon after scares the hell outta me.
Whatever happened to taking your time getting to know someone? Suppose thats gone to shit, ppl are just disposable now.
Social media has changed things I think, too many distractions and its too easy to roll through people.
Recently split with my partner/bf, I won't be going anywhere near Tinder or the like it's too scary but more inclined anyway atm to replace the front fence with an eight footer and put cctv on every post.
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Sorry to hear that.
But yeah i've actually met some guys thru BF. I'd estimate on average I'd speak/PM them for at least 2-3 months before meeting irl.
Kurve
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This app could operate the windows, the aircon and turn the engine on and off. Bit scary.
The case is believed to be a world-first for vehicle cyberstalking of this kind, where a car's technology has been used in a predatory way.
www.abc.net.au
The case is believed to be a world-first for vehicle cyberstalking of this kind, where a car's technology has been used in a predatory way.
'Obsessive' man who cyberstalked ex-girlfriend's car handed suspended sentence
The case is believed to be a world-first for vehicle cyberstalking of this kind, where a car's technology has been used in a predatory way.
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I had a BF stalker turn up to my office
A serial pest with quite a few different accounts over the years is my punt
A serial pest with quite a few different accounts over the years is my punt
What a strange f***er he must be,how did he know where to go?
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west perth mining funds is a pretty short list of two
Sexual predator who stole images from hundreds of iCloud accounts jailed
A UK man has been jailed for 32 months after pleading guilty to stealing intimate photos and videos from 297 iCloud accounts.
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"Police found the 38-year-old, from Nightingale Avenue, Hathern, near Loughborough, had kept a full detailed spreadsheet on his computer that contained the personal details of all of his 297 victims including their security answers, names, date of birth and addresses."
Officer used police computer network to stalk dozens of potential Tinder dates
Adrian Moore, a former nominee for police officer of the year, is jailed for using the police database to determine the "suitability" of women he was considering contacting on dating websites.
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Manhunt: How a young detective and a famous FBI agent caught a serial stalker
Di McDonald only dated Max Gardiner for a few months. But the consequences of splitting up with him nearly broke her. It took a famous FBI profiler to finally catch the serial stalker.
www.abc.net.au
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Manhunt: How a young detective and a famous FBI agent caught a serial stalker
Di McDonald only dated Max Gardiner for a few months. But the consequences of splitting up with him nearly broke her. It took a famous FBI profiler to finally catch the serial stalker.
That was really interesting in how stalkers operate when their target begins to see through the facade and tries to distance. It's so insidious and what is worse imo and that I've seen before: “I started losing friends and fighting with family … They blocked me, they hung up on me, they just didn’t want to know about this anymore.”
The harm is enormous and it keeps stacking on in layers the longer it goes on for.
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No surprise one in three DV support workers are reporting seeing technology being used in stalking their victims, through phones, GPS, spy cams, the whole lot I imagine including keystroke monitors.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-11...eport-shows-increase-in-online-abuse/12911926
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-11...eport-shows-increase-in-online-abuse/12911926
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The law/police etc have to catch up with this.
Sooner rather than later ffs.
Sooner rather than later ffs.
