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I just don't get it. Girl gets upset at me for not showing committment to our relationship, so I work hard at it, spend time with a girl and everything, and now sitting outside her bedroom window at 3am with a bucket is 'stalking'? Make your mind up woman!!!!! Sure, it might not have been your window, and your sister is only 12, but you asked for committment.
 
I just don't get it. Girl gets upset at me for not showing committment to our relationship, so I work hard at it, spend time with a girl and everything, and now sitting outside her bedroom window at 3am with a bucket is 'stalking'? Make your mind up woman!!!!! Sure, it might not have been your window, and your sister is only 12, but you asked for committment.

It's OK Tex, you'll be committed soon. :D
 
I just don't get it. Girl gets upset at me for not showing committment to our relationship, so I work hard at it, spend time with a girl and everything, and now sitting outside her bedroom window at 3am with a bucket is 'stalking'? Make your mind up woman!!!!! Sure, it might not have been your window, and your sister is only 12, but you asked for committment.
It's really not something to make a joke about. I just don't understand, don't these guys have any self-respect?I once saw in a movie "What if your mother could see you, would she be proud?" That's a pretty good guideline if your moral compass is a bit screwed.
 

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It's really not something to make a joke about.

I never joke about serious matters like this. I was truly confused.

I just don't understand, don't these guys have any self-respect?I once saw in a movie "What if your mother could see you, would she be proud?" That's a pretty good guideline if your moral compass is a bit screwed.
My mother was a crack whore, so your theory is not very useful
 
I just don't get it. Girl gets upset at me for not showing committment to our relationship, so I work hard at it, spend time with a girl and everything, and now sitting outside her bedroom window at 3am with a bucket is 'stalking'? Make your mind up woman!!!!! Sure, it might not have been your window, and your sister is only 12, but you asked for committment.

Oh don't mind her, she's such a bitch. And I'm 13 now!!! :hearts:
 
I just don't get it. Girl gets upset at me for not showing committment to our relationship, so I work hard at it, spend time with a girl and everything, and now sitting outside her bedroom window at 3am with a bucket is 'stalking'? Make your mind up woman!!!!! Sure, it might not have been your window, and your sister is only 12, but you asked for committment.

no offense mate but sitting outside a girl's window at 3am is creepy, your not showing commitment your just freaking her out by behaving that way.

It may sound weird but your better off walking away when she behaves like that, her asking for 'commitment' is her way of shit testing you and seeing how much she can control you, and once a girl can too easily control you they will lose interest because it shows you have low values.

Girls want what they can't have, and most importantly they want guys they can't control and have boundaries they routinely enforce regardless of the shit tests she throws at him. This shows you have high self value and that's what earns you respect and keeps their interest.

To put it in another way, if you can't say NO to a girl then your stuffed.
 

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I should also point out that when girls 'shit test' you they often don't even realise they are doing it. It's a sub-conscious hard wired thing they do to test your standards and values. If you ever wonder why 'bad boys' seem to end up with hot chicks, it's because they usually don't give a shit and they just do whatever they want.

I don't recommend however behaving like a 'bad boy' because that more less means becoming an arseh*le, but there are some very good behavioral lessons you can learn and take from them whilst at the same time knowing how to treat women with respect and dignity.
 
My flatmate's GF has recently turned into a jealous psycho. She'll end up stalking him for a bit, nothing surer.

Stalking is one of those relatively gender equal crimes.
 
I should also point out that when girls 'shit test' you they often don't even realise they are doing it. It's a sub-conscious hard wired thing they do to test your standards and values. If you ever wonder why 'bad boys' seem to end up with hot chicks, it's because they usually don't give a shit and they just do whatever they want.

I don't recommend however behaving like a 'bad boy' because that more less means becoming an arseh*le, but there are some very good behavioral lessons you can learn and take from them whilst at the same time knowing how to treat women with respect and dignity.

You donnae have to be a "bad boy" to shun this kinda crap. Subconscious or not it's manipulative and shouldn't be accepted.

BTW, never heard the term "shit test, like it and your work :thumbsu:
 

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