The thing I found most amusing when the intruders arrived was the girls straight off asking them whether The Bachelor was their "type". This only reaffirms to me that, although a high percentage of women don't confess to it, that looks and fitting into a pre-conceived "type" is the most important factor in determining a potential partner. I am not saying men don't do the same thing, we do, it's just that some women hide their superficiality behind the old chestnuts of "oh he has to have a sense of humour", etc. If you don't fit this woman's template of what she wants physically then you have little chance, no matter how nice you are. The only factors that can possibly break a woman out of a type template is fame and money.
That why it was great to hear Lana say that she doesn't have types. What a refreshing point of view!
Sorry to go a little off-topic. As for Emily, I don't think she realises how conceited and narcissistic she is. In the media she says she has been portrayed as a villain but on the other hand as said she has been herself, etc. I think she needs to put two and two together. She also expects men to approach her because she has such a significant opinion of herself that approaching men is beneath her and that it should come automatically. There is a reason why she is 31, attractive and still single and if she had any empathy or compassion for other people she would probably have what she is looking for.