I know this kind of goes against the grain of the thread and it feels weird posting here after so long, however i need some anonymous woman advice from some experienced and not so experienced out there.
So, i've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year and a half, and i'm having doubts over whether i want to continue aboard the relationship. I have had some really good times with her, but i've just been thinking lately how green the grass looks over the other side...
I think my attitude has become partially obvious to her however, as she is constantly asking me if i love her. Constantly. I'm talking every day asking me why i didn't say 'i love you' properly or why didn't invite her 231248412 times to go somewhere, making her think that i might not want her to come to a social event because i only asked her a couple of times whether she wanted to come.
I also feel that i'm getting annoyed at her for random things, but we've grown to clash in attitudes lately and this shift in power has damaged conversation because before when conversation went from point to point, now i feel she thinks about everything way too much and agrees with whatever i have to say, no matter what i say.
I know this sounds like i'm having a whinge about a girl that really likes me who i don't appreciate, however i don't treat her badly at all, i just don't know whether i want to continue in a relationship with someone i don't really see myself with in the future or whether to stick with it and remember the good times we've had and hope that they turn back around and i find that i miss her again like i used to when we were apart...
Has anyone had any experience in this kind of situation? Breaking up with someone who was more emotionally committed to the relationship, how you did it and whether you came to regret and didn't realize what you had. Or alternatively, whether you've come to this situation and found that it's worked it's way out to happily ever after. I want it to last and i want to be happy with her, currently i just don't feel that way like i used to. I've never had anything like this, i was always the clingy one who never had any of the power...