Society & Culture The BigFooty Guide to getting the woman of Your Desire (Part 7)

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Gotta wonder how those type of things come about, someone has to make the first move knowing full well that if it is rejected it can be catastrophic for them.

Case in point, my mates mum is a bit flirtatious, chances are she doesn't want the D, but what if gentlemen, what if she was in fact dying for the D? Someone has to make the first move, same with the previous poster's dilemma which admittedly I have not read, how does he make it happen? (Even though he shouldn't)
 

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Gotta wonder how those type of things come about, someone has to make the first move knowing full well that if it is rejected it can be catastrophic for them.

Case in point, my mates mum is a bit flirtatious, chances are she doesn't want the D, but what if gentlemen, what if she was in fact dying for the D? Someone has to make the first move, same with the previous poster's dilemma which admittedly I have not read, how does he make it happen? (Even though he shouldn't)

You had me at "my mate's mum". :thumbsu:
 
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Gotta wonder how those type of things come about, someone has to make the first move knowing full well that if it is rejected it can be catastrophic for them.

Case in point, my mates mum is a bit flirtatious, chances are she doesn't want the D, but what if gentlemen, what if she was in fact dying for the D? Someone has to make the first move, same with the previous poster's dilemma which admittedly I have not read, how does he make it happen? (Even though he shouldn't)
Is she married? If hot and not - you must do it.
 

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Tomorrow I'm planning to shit where I eat (Ie ask a uni lass out).

Any easy suggestions other than not going at it too hard? The course results in us potentially spending a lot of time in the same vicinity (Not many electives) which is a bit of a worry...
This one is a weird one, my undergrad was a course without many electives, and there was a girl in it who seemed to be quite keen on me. Wasn't sure if I was reading it wrong though (I never know with that kind of shit), so to avoid potential awkwardness, decided to wait it out until we were finished (this was only the last few months though). End of the degree came, celebratory drinks and such, made no move, basically just an extended awkward flirting story in the end.

But yeah, if you're reasonably close to the end (say last semester), you can probably afford to go hard (hindsight tells me I should have done it this way), if you're not, NFI. :p

I can definitely speak to this. I did this once, and then someone else did it to me with the same girl (a much maligned afl spud).
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This one is a weird one, my undergrad was a course without many electives, and there was a girl in it who seemed to be quite keen on me. Wasn't sure if I was reading it wrong though (I never know with that kind of shit), so to avoid potential awkwardness, decided to wait it out until we were finished (this was only the last few months though). End of the degree came, celebratory drinks and such, made no move, basically just an extended awkward flirting story in the end.

But yeah, if you're reasonably close to the end (say last semester), you can probably afford to go hard (hindsight tells me I should have done it this way), if you're not, NFI. :p
Masters, we have an intensive 2 week elective we're both doing coming up, then next semester, then all of next year, haha :p
 

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Thread needs an update from cAsEy_18.
We're bordering on dangerous territory in the crazy/hot scale terms. I have also found out that said procedure is not for 2 months, so that whilst the "preview" is still as close to a certainty as can be, it will not be as immediate as first thought.

Update will be given when applicable. Yes I know, a disappointing update.
 

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We're bordering on dangerous territory in the crazy/hot scale terms. I have also found out that said procedure is not for 2 months, so that whilst the "preview" is still as close to a certainty as can be, it will not be as immediate as first thought.

Update will be given when applicable. Yes I know, a disappointing update.

Just tell her you require several previews, because you really, really want to be able to accurately describe the difference between pre and post surgery boob.

There's just no way you could possibly get a full impression of pre-surgery boob from one viewing.
 

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Just tell her you require several previews, because you really, really want to be able to accurately describe the difference between pre and post surgery boob.

There's just no way you could possibly get a full impression of pre-surgery boob from one viewing.
Haha she's an odd one. Her words, she keeps saying things how she's recently as a month ago had a 5-year thing end, that she feels like it was such a waste of time, and that she's now over relationships and just wants to "have fun". These are just massive ticks all over the place, but **** me if finding a time isn't hard enough!

My only conundrum is as I stated earlier in this thread, I think I'm at the point where I'm looking for a girlfriend. And despite what she says, I can feel her starting to get attached, but I know she isn't who I want to date. I guess I was more after a quick thing with this, but it's not looking that way.
 

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Ok, so a couple months after finishing high school, I notice a girl, who was always pretty quiet and I'm not sure I ever spoke to her in school, had gotten rather attractive. I always remember thinking she was nice, but we just didn't run in the same groups, so we'd never talked.
Cool as a cucumber I send her a facebook message saying how great she is and ask her out. Safe to say that didn't go down so well haha. I ended up explaining the situation to her, we talked it out, and it's fine - she's a bartender at our local pub these days, and we talk a bit if I see her.

That part could probably belong in the "Awkward Flirting Stories" thread haha.

The reason that I'm here is because almost the exact same situation is happening now (I'm now 3yrs removed from High School). It appears I may have hung out with the wrong group in high school haha, this one was well more suited to me. Anyway I played this one a little safer - I did basically start talking to her out of nowhere, but she responded, we've just been nicely talking about work, tv etc.. all the usual things. I haven't got any sign from her that she's necessarily "keen", but it's all been friendly enough. Now 21yr old me has learned, and I can't just go asking her out now, given we've never actually hung out haha. So what's my next step? My best guess is to find out where she's headed one night, do the old "Oh no way, me too" happen to run into her there and talk for a bit there and see how it goes. Thoughts? Or better ideas haha?
 
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