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MEB_ said:
If it makes you feel any better, the dude I've had a crush on for about 8 months literally told me to my face today that it was "such a shame that we're in the friend zone".

Booo, hissss, etc.
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Jatz said:
Oh Mebby! That's the worst :( does he know that you're interested?
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MEB_ said:
Oh I dunno. He's a bit of a head case this fella. Told me the other day that he likes the girl he's seeing so much because she reminds him so much of me.

He is an excellent friend to me though and I love him lots. It's just not meant to be!
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What am I reading here? Thought I was in the GD boards "Awkward flirting stories" thread for a second.

And they say guys can't take a hint. He was quite clearly telling you he is into you. He might not have the confidence to say it directly, but I don't know how much clearer he could have been.

I know I don't know the situation very well, but from those few comments you quoted of him, he is really into you.

Maybe you are trying to steer clear because he is seeing someone?

Anyway just thought you should know from an outsiders perspective how clear he was being.
 
I bleed Blue said:
What am I reading here? Thought I was in the GD boards "Awkward flirting stories" thread for a second.

And they say guys can't take a hint. He was quite clearly telling you he is into you. He might not have the confidence to say it directly, but I don't know how much clearer he could have been.

I know I don't know the situation very well, but from those few comments you quoted of him, he is really into you.

Maybe you are trying to steer clear because he is seeing someone?

Anyway just thought you should know from an outsiders perspective how clear he was being.
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Hmmm...interesting but I think you're way off base here.

HE's the one who used the term friend zone. HE's the one who told me that he's not dating any girls in their 20s anymore (he's 38). I wish you were right but unfortunately I don't think you are.

I met one of his friends a week or two ago when we went out for drinks and now he's telling me I should go after his buddy, that he can't stop asking about me, blah blah. Why would he do that if he was keen himself?
 
MEB_ said:
Hmmm...interesting but I think you're way off base here.

HE's the one who used the term friend zone. HE's the one who told me that he's not dating any girls in their 20s anymore (he's 38). I wish you were right but unfortunately I don't think you are.

I met one of his friends a week or two ago when we went out for drinks and now he's telling me I should go after his buddy, that he can't stop asking about me, blah blah. Why would he do that if he was keen himself?
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Hmm yeah those are pretty different messages to the one he was sending earlier.

He might have used the term friend zone, but he said "such a shame we're in the friend zone". I take that as he wishes you wanted to be more than friends.

And he likes the other girl he is so much, because she reminds him of you???? Sounds like he is trying to find someone like you because he thinks you're not interested.

In regards to trying to set you up with is friend. Who knows? Maybe he is just trying to be nice. Maybe he figures you arn't into him anyway.
 
BlueBelle said:
What happened???
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Nothing really...he's a super nice guy. This is going to sound a little bitchy but...I didn't find him very challenging. He kind of just agreed with everything I said and doesn't seem to have an opinion on anything. He's very sweet, very attractive, very much a gentleman, but I need a bit of mental stimulation, you know what I mean?
 
MEB_ said:
Nothing really...he's a super nice guy. This is going to sound a little bitchy but...I didn't find him very challenging. He kind of just agreed with everything I said and doesn't seem to have an opinion on anything. He's very sweet, very attractive, very much a gentleman, but I need a bit of mental stimulation, you know what I mean?
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I know what you mean but it's only a second date
 

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MEB_ said:
Yeah I know, just don't see the point in wasting our time if I'm not keen.
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Well if you're not keen, I agree. No point
 
MEB_ said:
Nothing really...he's a super nice guy. This is going to sound a little bitchy but...I didn't find him very challenging. He kind of just agreed with everything I said and doesn't seem to have an opinion on anything. He's very sweet, very attractive, very much a gentleman, but I need a bit of mental stimulation, you know what I mean?
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So he wasn't opinionated and was very sweet and attractive and very much a gentlemen so totally undesirable. Nice guys really do finish last I guess.
 
AceAndy said:
So he wasn't opinionated and was very sweet and attractive and very much a gentlemen so totally undesirable. Nice guys really do finish last I guess.
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That's not what I meant at all! What am I supposed to do with someone who just says "yeah, you're totally right" all the time? He doesn't care about politics, is completely clueless when it comes to what's going on in the world, doesn't do anything for other people...I just don't find that appealing.
 

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Immortal Tyrant said:
Depends if your misses is happy with you drinking at 2pm.

Beer o clock, so it shouldn't be an issue. :o
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It's game day she is where she belongs... At home and I'm ready for the game.
 
Well that sure was an interesting 10 pages to catch up on.

HBF it's just like riding a bike, you never forget how to do it. Enjoy it!

MEB_ i reckon you're just looking into every little thing a bit much, need to simplify things i reckon. If you're looking into everything for a meaning or a sign, you'll talk yourself out of it every time.
 

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