"The talk"

[Smoooothy]

butt sechs is where two people rub their butts together isnt it?

i beleive that was called bumming each other

it was gay

 

[FreoGirl]

grew up in a strict catholic family so there was no "talking".

I now have a 15 year old son and all we ever do is "talk". He has some amazing questions and am glad he is confident enough to ask them. Bought him a variety box of 30 condoms when he was about 14. Told him I didn't care what he did with them, but learn how to use them!

 

[Shell]

Oh. I just remembered another reason 'the talk' came up when I was about 11. I must have blocked it from memory. We were watching the news and I asked my whole family what rape was

I remember dropping the "C" word at the dinner table when I was a kid and had NFI what it meant.

Mum was not impressed.

 

[Howard Littlejohn]

What a day, eh, Milhouse? The sun is out, birds are singing, bees are trying to have sex with them - as is my understanding...

 

[iDon]

Having a family in the medical profession meant I had the talk from a regular age. My favourite talk is hitting them back asking questions about STIs (not that I had them) freaking them out and watch them go pale.

 

[neroblack]

I remember dropping the "C" word at the dinner table when I was a kid and had NFI what it meant.

Mum was not impressed.

That's not an appropriate word for a lady.

 

[Smoooothy]

i remember dropping the c bomb in class one day in year 4. it was only then i was informed that it was a swear word.

i beleive it was used in the correct context too, so atleast i had that right..

 

[SugarShane]

Like a few others here, never actually got "the talk." Learned about it all from friends and porno mags (for the kids, basically imagine redtube if once you clicked the link, all you got was a few screenshots).

My parents were old-ish when they had me, so by about 16 or 17 i probably could've educated them more than the other way around.

 

[Ahern2Boof]

The internet gave me the talk.

 

[NSWCROW]

Had gotten to the age where i'd read the paper.
Saw a snippet where a man had broken into a lady's house ( she was elderly iirc ) and had " masturbated " at the end of her bed....


NSWCROW - " Dad ??.....what does " MASTURBATE " mean ????



NEK MINNIT

 

[Smoooothy]

^^^ DAT NOSTALGIA!!!!

 

[Catfish Alley]

The internet gave me the talk.

You must have some messed up views on the topic then Must be weird growing up with such easy access to hardcore pr0n.

 

[NSWCROW]

xHamster

 

[pantskyle]

i remember dropping the c bomb in class one day in year 4. it was only then i was informed that it was a swear word.

i beleive it was used in the correct context too, so atleast i had that right..

Directed at the teacher?

 

[DrVanNostrand]

Never had it either, I don't think it's overly prevalent in our culture. If it wasn't for American TV, I wouldn't even know what 'the talk' is.

 

[Ahern2Boof]

You must have some messed up views on the topic then Must be weird growing up with such easy access to hardcore pr0n.

Meh I turned out alright. Got my first girlfriend when I was 16, waited 14 months before we first had sex (until she we felt ready)

 

[The Goon]

Had gotten to the age where i'd read the paper.
Saw a snippet where a man had broken into a lady's house ( she was elderly iirc ) and had " masturbated " at the end of her bed....


NSWCROW - " Dad ??.....what does " MASTURBATE " mean ????



NEK MINNIT

 

[Geelong_Sicko]

Had the talk at about 13. Medical diagrams, the whole shebang.

One of the most awful thirty minutes of my life.

And the trauma & angst made you an easy 'grooming' target for the Hawthorn fan recruiters in the 1980's? It's okay, I remember a giant Hawk trying to touch me up too back then. I ran.

Just remember Messenger - you are NOT a 'victim'. You're a SURVIVOR.

 

[placebo]

You must have some messed up views on the topic then Must be weird growing up with such easy access to hardcore pr0n.

Weird? Mate, I can't get it up anymore if there isn't at least eight people in the room, gallons of fluids flying everywhere like a burst fire hydrant, leather bed sheets that make you feel like you're doing it on a cow, double ended everything, strange fruits, tentacles, and with someone Michael Hutchenceing in the corner. I've been ruined.

 

[Messenger]

And the trauma & angst made you an easy 'grooming' target for the Hawthorn fan recruiters in the 1980's? It's okay, I remember a giant Hawk trying to touch me up too back then. I ran.

Just remember Messenger - you are NOT a 'victim'. You're a SURVIVOR.

And now I recruit for the Hawks army.

 

[Geelong_Sicko]

...and with someone Michael Hutchenceing in the corner.

Gotta love that this is a verb now. Along with 'being Fritzled'.

 

[The Passenger]

i beleive it was used in the correct context too, so atleast i had that right..

"miss, please put your campaigner away!" .. ???

 

[Geelong_Sicko]

And now I recruit for the Hawks army.

There are numerous psychological precedents where abuse survivors themselves become abusers. Physical-presence grooming has given way to online grooming, such as in your case Messenger.

It's not too late to stop the cycle Messenger. Here, I'll dress up like Half-Cat and we'll have a chat...

 

[hirdy_is_champ]

Parents never said shit to me and I genuinely don't know at what age I found out how "everything works." The strangest conversation actually happened a couple of months ago when my mum dropped me off at my bf's place and said something along the lines of "be careful, we don't want any unwanted events happening." I responded with a loud WHAT THE HELL? She didn't say another word I was 22, but I still live at home so I have no room for a little tacker....

 

[RolandF1]

I asked Mum about babies when I was something like 5 or 6, possibly 7. She was a nurse so she told it to me straight, even drew diagrams... Most of it went over my head at the time but started putting things into context when later seeing scenes on TV, etc.